Need an advice

Bij July 3, 2019 8:31 pm

Hello beautiful perverts, hope you’re having a great day or night reading this. I need an advice.

So, I’m friends with 2 guys recently. We are very close and hung out everyday (it’s summer break). Btw, we are all college students. I will call them guy 1 and guy 2. I have a little feelings for guy 1. However, we are both bisexual. He is... a little feminine....A LITTLE. Guy 1 does a lot of skinship with me, he’s always sitting close to me, lean in a lot to me. If I were to turn my head, I would’ve kissed him (exaggerated). He’s always so close to me. Me trying so hard here pretending I’m fine while my heart is bursting open. He can sing too, so when he sings, my heart will pump extra and my face starts to pump more blood. I’m trying to convince myself I don’t like him, I can’t have feelings, he ain’t like that, maybe he’s just the type to be close with anybody. I’m unsure if he does the same with guy 2 or with anybody. I’m too shy to even ask others “hey does he do that all the time with you too?”. Plus, he is a little feminine and bisexual. I’m unsure if he even have feelings for me. He always acts like it’s nothing. Here am I, pretending to be fine and smiling with my teeth (and also not turn my head when he’s so close to my face).

All I think about everyday while hanging out with him is I want to SQUEEZE HIM and..........kis- shut up bij shut up.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

Responses
    Rosa Black July 3, 2019 8:53 pm

    If you don't confess you'll suppress your feelings until he moves on and forgets about you and you'll end up heartbroken. If you do confesse you'll get you heart broken but eventually will move on or youll get together and hope fully have a healthy and bootiful relationship. We caN all see you have better options with number two so now go and I'm sorry if u get rejected because of me.ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    PlumpSprouts July 3, 2019 8:56 pm

    I mean, I understand you wanting to prevent potential awkwardness, but your already in a bit of discomfort because you don't know if you guys both want the same thing, honestly take my opinion with a pinch of salt, you need to nip it at the bud, (communicate not saying it like it's super easy, I understand) I mean imagine your situation for another few year are you satisfied with it? If nothing changes, or is cleared up, I mean even if he is just the touchy feel-y type then you can consider to move on and still be friends, that's just my few cents...

    Alien1995 July 3, 2019 9:32 pm

    Ask him about how he feels about you but make it seem like a joke so if he's not into you you'll know and still can pass it up as a joke, and if he's into you then I can't wait to see your beautiful love babies! ^^

    usagi chan July 3, 2019 11:44 pm

    Idk how he feels about you, but I think he is showing skinship on purpose and is definitely trying to provoke a reaction out of you. :) maybe try to do exactly what he's doing (mimic his behavior) and see if that catches him off guard. If he gets surprised or nervous in any way I think that would be a clear indicator that he is well aware of what he's doing. ;) also it might lead to something more...