You are absolutely right. More than that: Rape has always been part of the porn industry. If you don't like it, fine, but there's actual porn videos, with real people, displaying the same kind of act. And that's somehow okay. This is also porn, so it partly tends to our primal urges. Possession and dominance are a great part of that, too. There's simply those who can't admit it.
Ooooo nice explanation i like ur thinking
It's not ok, rape should never be ok. That's why a lot of people don't like these stories because it ruins it. The sex is so much more enjoyable when there is a build up to it but some authors want an excuse to get right to it and then do the relationship development afterwards which is annoying because you don't want them to be with a rapist. Hated the seme in the first story because he never recognized what he did was wrong or that the other guy was only doing it for his family.
Again, it's fiction. It's supposed to indulge our fantasies and rape has always been a part of porn. If you don't like it, that's fine, too, but it's annoying to have these same crying people in the comments complaining every time. Sexual fantasies are very subjective, more than anything else, so everyone should read what they want.
Of course there's stories that incorporate it better or worse, but in and on itself, having in the story is possible, if you take the steps you need to make it work.
I do have to admit I can't remember which story this topic belongs to, so I can't tell right now, I'm mostly lenient, as long as there's nothing that actively gets on my nerves, so I don't know if you are right about how it's nonsensically done. But it's wrong to say that it's never okay, because it's fucking fiction and fiction should be allowed to do anything, as long as it makes sense within the realms of the lore and the conventions of human behaviour (even with a little bit of leeway, depending on the situation). As long as that's a given, I don't see a problem at all.
People saying oh the author took the rape so lightly... honey whats the point if the author put rape to begin with, whats the put of fussing over that same rape. They would not have put it in the first place if they were gonna spend half of the story blaming the seme and sending him to jail for that. Like bruh its just a story.(〜￣△￣)〜 ┑(￣Д ￣)┍