shounen ai, can punch walls, leader of a badass group, if you're into gap moe, this uke is the epitome of it:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/karasugaoka_don_t_be_shy/
yaoi, age gap, older uke-- the mature out of the two, very competent in work, also a gap moe:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/himono_tokodoki_shanairen_ai/
yaoi, deguchi is the best
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/soredemo_yasashii_koi_o_suru/
yaoi, super strong delinquent uke, two newbie idiots trying out slave/master relationship, seme is a reluctant 'dom'
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/goshujinsama_to_wa_iwasemasen/
yaoi, can stand up for himself and his husbando
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mother_s_spirit/
yakuza member with a cute side
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/honto_yajuu/
OMEGAVERSE
beats up shitty alphas for kicks, caring alpha
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/megumi_and_tsugumi/
shounen ai omegaverse!?!?! independent, doesn't give a shit about bullying, omega talks back to alpha
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kasegimasen_kara/
straightforward omega and flustered, honest alpha but they're both in equal standing, really sweet imo
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/omae_no_koi_wa_ore_no_mono/
single father omega! that's strong, independent, and can-stand-up-for-themselves, yeah?
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kekkon_shite_kudasai/
special shout out to the beta 'uke' in Kashikomarimashita, Destiny! the alpha is even willing to take the next pregnancy
as well as okusama wa alpha for that alpha/alpha good shit
Can anyone suggest me any story with a strong, independent, can-stand-up-for-themself uke?