I know.. It just feels like a good intentional matchmaking. But it actually is much more than that, when you start enforcing the match, to be together. People have different appearances and personalities, and when we get to see those, we think, "wow, their personalities match so well" or "they look good together". But we don't think how they have become like that. As in, personalities are usually built on what a particular person experiences in his life. Those experiences can be either good or bad.
In case of Yuyang, he's become so forward and fun to be around. That's because he feels independent and carefree as he doesn't depend on his parents, and doesn't give a damn about his relations' comments. But he hides the fact that he's afraid of getting in to relationships because none of his past crushes worked. And he knows how the homosexuals are treated by other homophobic morons in real life. To outer world, he seems to be a strong-minded guy living a carefree, happy life. But they don't see how much he suffers because of his family problems. And they don't see that he's afraid of Lihuan getting the same treatment he gets for being homosexual. They don't see that he's scared to get into relationships because his previous ones have never worked. When a matchmaker thinks "it's better if they get together as a couple" it's okay. But he/she shouldn't force them to be together. Should only help them if they ask for such. If the help isn't requested, then it's better if they can just sit back and watch how the fate plays around the couple. Or else, even if you have good intentions, you will end up hurting people in a way far worse than they've gotten hurt before. We shouldn't play with people's lives. Just my opinion. : )
I wish I had Lihuan's tolerance. He is just so gullible and kind that sometimes I feel like adopting him. I'm not blaming anyone in this situation though. This is how the real life is. Some people do things in good faith, but yet end up messing things even more because they weren't focusing on every possible consequence. And some have insecurities because of their past experiences and because they lack self-confidence. Some people do regret for not being more understanding. Life is, after all, a mixture of realities and actualities. DJun's pace is just right. No matter how fast we want the good things to occur, they do take time. We just have to accept it.