I know people are frustrated but cut YuYang some slack. He's insecure and terrified. You...

Zen June 12, 2019 2:04 pm

I know people are frustrated but cut YuYang some slack.

He's insecure and terrified. You saw how his family reacted about him coming out, not to mention they live in China, a country where they literally beat you up or send you to prison if they catch you doing any homosexual acts.

Plus its definitely terrifying to suddenly have a person confessing their love for you when all you have experienced is hate and anger. The way he cried expressed how he is running away and regrets being so consumed by his emotions. Give him time, give both of them some time.

We all want to see them finally together but honestly, the author went for a realistic approach that not every story is all rainbows and butterflies. The struggle is part of the journey and these boys are going through a lot so what we should do is support them in their journey no matter what happens.

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    silversky June 12, 2019 2:09 pm

    thank you

    Holly June 12, 2019 2:13 pm

    So it's ok to intentionally hurt lihuan because he's insecure?

    silversky June 12, 2019 2:32 pm
    So it's ok to intentionally hurt lihuan because he's insecure? Holly

    how was it intentional? (asking as a question not as a "wtf r u on about" thing sksks)

    AwkwardSterek June 12, 2019 2:46 pm

    Exactly! I had a relationship that was like this, myself. Both me and my girlfriend were like Yu Yang, but we could be like Li Huan at times, too. She hurt me and I hurt her. It was not intentional, we were only scared of people finding out about us. Eventually, people did, and we are now broken up, so yeah. I can see why Yu Yang is terrified. Coming out and being in a same-sex relationship is scary depending on your situation.

    Zen June 12, 2019 2:51 pm
    So it's ok to intentionally hurt lihuan because he's insecure? Holly

    I didn't say it was okay, he was crying in the end because he regrets hurting LiHuan.

    People tend to push others away despite knowing they care about each other.

    But what the heart knows is sometimes hard for the mind to accept.