Can't really ask people who know me sooo

luna May 17, 2019 6:21 am

I wanna share something with ya'll cuz it's been bothering me since forever. Is it weird that I'm only interested towards older men? Like I literally have no interest with people my age. I think it's because (not all but u get what i mean) they're more mature? Especially with the way they handle situations and the way they dress, not too showy but still so cool or something. Maybe I really am weird ( ̄∇ ̄")

Responses
    ♥~Zerxz~♥ May 17, 2019 6:36 am

    nah you normal. Humans find a variety of people attractive so YOU finding older men attractive isn't out of the ordinary. It's just a preference and everyone has it, some people are interested in short guys, tall guys, chubby guys, thin guys, muscular guys, young guys, old guys, white, black, hispanic, asian etc.

    Wisteria May 17, 2019 6:37 am

    I dunno. I think it’s kinda usual. I mean I always hear girls in high school liking older guys. Simply because they’re more attractive manner-wise and mature. I mean I also like older guys. Can’t say I don’t have interest towards younger boys that have the same maturity though.

    Not weird May 17, 2019 8:20 am

    Nope. I’m attracted to men one or two years younger than myself but are more mature than I am. I dont even know why, like they don’t look younger than me or anything, but I think that it might be because I look like I’m 16 still when I’m in my mid 20’s. ╥﹏╥

    luna May 17, 2019 8:43 am

    Oh, thanks so much! I actually told some of my friends about this before and they just y'know, made fun of me and they're like "You're seriously into that?" or "That's your type?" cuz they're half older my age or something (there's the huge age gap) tho I acted like it's okay and didn't mind it but I never told anything related to that to anyone again because it kinda hurts me knowing that they think I'm weird because my 'like' is different from their 'like'. I just couldn't take it that my friends judge me just because we have different tastes so I really appreciate your kind responses! (▰˘◡˘▰)

    Anonymous May 17, 2019 10:23 am

    nah gurl you totally normal. I'm 21 and i like guys 5-9 years older than me. But maybe it's cause I'm an immature wreck of a train and older men appear more attractive to me cause they have their shit together? (not all but ya get me haha)

    Psycho May 17, 2019 12:22 pm

    worry not. 5-15 years age gap