Although I have to disagree with somethings, I ought to say u have a really nice vocabulary and u use it smartly. Also a very well elaborated form of speech.
That's why I said that she will be a successful lawyer in the future but nobody understand
Also, Ahhh ok I see what u mean.
Maybe u weren’t raised in a culture that uses this phrasing as a degrading phrase, in my country... hypocrisy level reaches they are literally all under the name of feminism, degrading us all.
U sound well educated, well mannered but not so well exposed to the shitty part of the world, I’m not saying anything bad, I’m just assuming ?
Okay from my background, I would say both women and men are source of pressure to literally agonize females, ok Females even more, why? Because females who think males are better and then degrade fellow females who think they are worthy is literally an everyday happening here.
Notice what I said? Better not different.
Here every change a male and female have (like as u said) is automatically in favor of the man cuz he is superior and like I can’t find the exact translation to what they say.
So a mother having a son and a daughter will literally make the son as a king and the daughter makes her do EVERYTHING because she has to do it, it is her role.
I can’t really explain cuz those things are lived not said but even if I agree with the part I agree on especially the one u elaborated, it will never ever be like that.
Real world reality speaking here, different = either better or worse. In everything...
We call for versatility but all we do is compare things in a scale of better or worse.
It is REALITY not my opinion at all.
So I admit we are different than males but u know what automatically is the next question? “ so who is better?”
I am fed up with my society tbh, the difference here literally means I’m less, I know it is not supposed to be that way but here we have it like that, weaker? U have to be stronger to prove them wrong.
Emotional? U will be wiped out.
Children? U will be slaved with “do that, do this, I’m the one in charge, u aren’t allowed to make decision because u think with ur emotions” bullshit.
Some ppl call for equality just as a simple way of saying “I’m no less than him” because the whole concept is fucked up real bad, she said “I’m no less than him” because THEY FORCED HER TO BELIEVE SHE IS LESS.
Of course I’m not changing my mind at all, feminists call for equity not equality, search equity vs equality. U will understand what I mean.
If they started dealing with equity then we are winners by default but they twist it by making us the weaker link.
I’m just trying to tell u, why ppl here... say equality... and I’m talking I’m from where I come from,, if they just understood equity then it would literally solve all our problems...
I have no clue about the ridiculous third wave or whatever, I think I they are misogynists disguised as feminists just to make us seem ridiculous
Fuck.........you really have a nice way of talking
@dragoponita
Actually u are half right and half deadly wrong.
Women and men are indeed unequal and will never be equal, but honey? It is for women’s favor not the opposite.
The outside world wasn’t made by men only, I don’t know how u got that information, of u meant physically built by men, then that might be less shitty but no, females had equal sharing in the evolution.
Ok I don’t know about the trendy feminism but A FEMINIST never asks for equality again, we ask for eEQUITY
SEARCH IT
Physically men are stronger but that is all about it, women can do everything they want, can do anything they want... it is not art and accounting... because simply those things aren’t made for men or made for women.
Of course few things are literally male-like , to me it is a decent way of living, like the guy should hold things while women walk free, open the door to her and so on, it is not obligatory but definitely more manly.
Ahhh the logic thing,
Ok, logical is t the right wording, I’m not a native English so I wouldn’t know the right wording but it more of a “rigid” way of thinking, while women think with a “more expanding “ way of thinking as u SAID network, so how does that work? ... women are far better here because they can either connect or disconnect their emotions in thinking, literally can grasp every aspect of the situation while men can only focus rigidly on what seems logical (as u said “ to them which may be EXTREMELY EMOTIONAL-based .
‘Sigh
I’m not generalizing here, but the mainstream r like that,
U can see when two ppl break up, the girl can break up up with a person she loves too u know?
I only agree on the physical part, because it is scientifically proven men can do harsher work like building and carpenters and so on, but that never meant we are less at all, we are more like the architects.
I really hated and liked ur wording of “a woman should focus on becoming a women”
I really would like to ask if u can elaborate what u meant because this can either be a really nice quote or a very offensive one. And I m triggered cuz the exact same wording was said as a form of degradation to me,
Women should focus on becoming Better and doing what they feel right regardless. What is ur standards of being a woman ? Working In the kitchen? Only just gets pregnant and raise children?
U know famm, it is not fair cuz I HATE CHILDREN, u have no idea .... I hate taking care of ppl
Am I supposed to be forced ?
I hate cooking and all womanly things, I never felt less feminine tho? Why? Cuz that doesn’t define me