This reminds me of a short clip of a documentary that I saw on Facebook - where the girl was aiming to reach an even more heavier weight (she was already terribly obese) and on top of that, her boyfriend helped force-feeding her through a funnel. It was shocking! The boyfriend said he loves her and wants her to achieve her dream of reaching that weight... it was wrong on so many levels...(⊙…⊙ )
It's so sad that she had such a terrible mindset and god, I want to beat that guy up. He and other people like him are willing to sacrifice the health of others for their own fetish. Absolutely disgusting.
If the guy truly loves her, that's cute I guess. But this is classic enabler behavior. While it's a nice thing to eat to your heart's content, if you keep using that excuse to not eat with moderation then you're going to suffer later on. Weight-related diseases, joint pain, not getting certain jobs, paying extra for snacks when you can just save up for idk a house, etc. Those are problems you can't ignore just because you love eating and say "welp I only live once." Sure, you only live once, but you'll live a short live filled with medicine.
In conclusion, I'm not saying that you worth less because you're fat. You're not. You deserve respect and love just like everybody else. But your body and your life deserve the same treatment, too.