Guys is it weird that I've never been in love. I'm 20 years old, soon to be 21. I have had...

I am the same way...but i am not too worried because I really lack communication skills and don't think I could find another person to love me (so it's better i don't find someone i like

I have my times of being envious of others, but I know that I like things to go my way, no compromise, so I will be a horrible person to be in a relationship with. I also enjoy being single/loner so I am not crazy about dating either.

I've never had crushes and haven't been in love either and I'm 24 years old.. well some of us are late bloomer so just enjoy your life, and yeah i have the exact same thoughts as you. Nothing is wrong even if you think like this, love will happen when you least expect it, we just have to wait and watch

I don't think that's weird at all !! and maybe you could be aromantic?? Had to look up the definition just to make sure I'm not thinking of something different. But! totally possible you're a romantic?! maybe you want a deep friendship, but not a romantic one. And maybe you want to be sexual and engage in sex, but not a romantic relationship?? totally possible!!

But also! Don't feel suffocated by not wanting, or wanting something different. Humans are such individualized creatures that these preferential differences are sooo normal (even though it's not portrayed as normal in mainstream media).

And lastly, queen!! (gender neutral term i like to use<3) growing old and being single sounds like a damn wonderful time! there are those who are happy as hell cat ladies. There are those who spend their life chasing their passions. there are those who just love the idea of having a home and life to themselves with a beautiful scenery!! <3 It's ALLLL valid! Personally, as a 21 cis bisexual woman, I want to grow old on my own fighting as an activist and creating safe havens for children and teens to be playful kids <3 everyone's reality and goals are different, you dont have to want a romance or even a relationship IF you dont want it (i mean, whatever you want and are comfortable with, you do you queen!)

just my two cents :) I am of no place to invalidate you or judge you, nor provide concrete facts for you. But I hope the best for you and that you can be happy leading whatever life you realllyyyy want to <3 Much love !!!

oh god.... im so sorry it's so long ToT <3

it's kinda weird how much I relate to this and OP. I'm still a teen, but I don't see myself really improving in the future in this aspect. I guess I'll just see how things turn out eventually though

Being in a relationship isn’t the only thing in the world. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable. If you din’t want to be in a relatioship ever, then don’t be in one. If you do it for anybody but yourself, then you’re just going to end up hurting yourself as well as the other person. Maybe one day you’ll wake up and meet somebody that your attracted to and want to start something with, until then don’t worry about it to much, keep an open mind, and don’t close doors that have yet to be opened. You don’t need to have your life figured out at all times, it’s something that every person at all ages try to do. Because we are always growing and learning who we are and what we want every single day of our lives until we pass on.

being asexual doesnt mean you dont like to be stimulated lol this is one of the many misconceptions about asexuality. asexual people also masturbate, have sex with people and can even get horny, it just doesnt entice them. it's like eating food when youre still full.