Have you ever felt like a failure? Do share

CHIXNEGGS May 2, 2019 3:41 pm

Alright so my last semester end exams are going on. I already screwed up one and now I have another exam tomorrow and I dont feel like studying at all, probably going to screw it up too. I feel like such a failure coz I already failed two times in my third semester, gave the re-exam and passed. But this habit of procrastination which resulted because the course I'm studying, I don't like it at all. hope I will get my graduation certificate and never ever will I do anything I dislike.

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    ♥~Zerxz~♥ May 2, 2019 3:44 pm

    just go to a library to study instead of doing it at home. It gets you in the mood to actually revise
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    ♥~Zerxz~♥ May 2, 2019 3:48 pm

    * yeah i used to hate a course I took but once I got better at the tests after revising, I began to like it more because of how easy it actually was. Don't give up bbg <3

    Keiki May 2, 2019 6:13 pm

    A change of environment definitely helps. We tend to strongly associate places with habits, so if you're used to doing something somewhere, you will tend to keep doing it whenever you're in that place. Take advantage of this by studying somewhere new or somewhere you feel productive. When you start associating the place with productivity, it should help getting you in the mood.

    As for disliking your course, I would tell you now to maybe explore something else you actually like. It's challenging to get a job in something other than what you majored in (not impossible, just exceptional circumstances).

    Miku May 2, 2019 7:12 pm

    We're all going to have to do things we dislike - over and over again. The best thing to do is give it your all. I always try to have the mindset of putting in the right amount of effort such that I won't regret my decisions years in the future. "Man I wish I studied more!" "Man I wish I passed that class!" when it is controllable in the present.
    There are many times we feel like failures - I feel like one daily. But sadly enough the world doesn't stop, and we all move on. Do what you can, thats what anyone could ask for.
    As for studying, definitely move to a different place. Make your own study guide. Take a practice quiz with NO notes and see your weakest points. take away all distractions. Prioritize. Manga, games, friends, will all be there after your final. Your final will not. ask a friend to study for you. make sure they keep you on track.
    I wish you the best of luck :) and get off this website ;) Best of luck, just think its almost the end <3 you did it once in the re-exam, you can do it again!