Well in my opinion. (btw this is based off the boys in my school) boys tend to like girls being clingy. However, don’t be very clingy but boys like when girls text them a lot. I don’t really see you as clingy. You should also ask him if you’re clingy. It’s better to ask him so you can feel comfortable. Sorry this isn’t much but I hope you have a good relationship!
my friend's been in the same situation and being honest and asking about things that makes you overthink really helps. for better or worse
what's the point of dating someone, if you feel insecure the entire time you're together? Point is, just be you. He likes YOU, not the insecure version of you. Also he is probably as nervous as you, so you don't need to overanalyze everything you say around him.
Anyway, you didn't make it official you are dating, so it's weird to "check up on him" like guurrrl you still aren't his girlfriend. For now, stand clear on what the relationship is first, it'll save you and him emotional misunderstandings and annoyance. but, once you date him, yeah go ahead and text him all you want every day.
Ive been getting closer to this guy and we mutually like each other but it hasn't been made like totally official that we're dating. And everytime I text him I get so nervous and my heart races so much that I find myself sometimes dreading him texting me because I wouldn't know what to say but I want him to talk with me (this sounds so conflicting aaa) And if he doesn't text me then I just give him space so I don't come off as clingy or anything but I really do wonder that if I check up on him once in a while throughout the day, is that considered annoying? I notice all my flaws once I began to "date" him but he makes me really happy just talking with me, but I have so many of these concerns, if im annoying, too clingy, or im too much :"( (?) ahh I hope someone can give me their opinions on my situation, I would appreciate it greatly!!