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You’re taking your own personal feelings of anger and applying it to my own experience as an actual gay person that’s funny it truly is where did I say all men what made you think that way I’m curious because clearly I was detailing my own experience and a lot of others people’s experiences when I said a lot right? A lot doesn’t mean all if I’m not mistaken maybe the meaning changed over the passed few years. I’m not justifying prostitution you just want to put words in my mouth to be angry clearly I was justifying his actions through the context of what was given in the story where and when did I say that prostitution is something good? I would love to know when I thought that and when I said that you can include the time date and year if you want. I was CLEARLY trying to say sexual relationships and loving someone don’t go hand and hand and you can do all of those things while still being in love with someone because that’s just how unrequited love is. And overall my entire point so obviously flew over your head since you went on a rant about equality if you couldn’t taken my rant and comprehend it enough to see that I’m mad because of the fact that people are mad over something trivial like how many sexual partners someone has and deciding that the person doesn’t truly love the person they said they were in love with (and my point about having multiple sex partners and open relationships is a big thing in gay circles in real life and more specifically where ties into that) Then I don’t know what else I can do for you to pick up what I’m putting down.

Hmm yea well if you used I don’t know CONTEXT CLUES? You could assume that maybe just maybe I know that monogamous people and nonmonogamous people exist within my own community and I’m talking about nonmonogamous ones. And don’t act like you have a point your point is just “hmm he didn’t mention people that DO prefer monogamy so maybe I should say that because clearly he doesn’t know it exists despite maybe his parents are monogamous people and most people in his life”

" I would love to know when I thought that and when I said that you can include the time date and year if you want" Seriously ?????

"I’m not justifying prostitution you just want to put words in my mouth to be angry clearly I was justifying his actions through the context of what was given in the story where and when did I say that prostitution is something good?" : I didn't say you think prostitution is a good thing, I said you seems to considered it as something "normal" for gay men. I also add :"But maybe I misanderstood what you said." So it seems I misanderstood.


"......because clearly I was detailing my own experience...." : re-reading all you're answers, it's still seem to me you made generalities, but if you considered not having made generalities about gay men you clearly made generalities about straight women !
When Amethyst tried to talk about the fact that not all straight women thinks bad things about gay men , you answer that : "What if I told you... I don’t give a fuck about your feelings eat my shit motherfucker.............................." Yeah that type of answer makes me angry, you do what you blame the others for. You want us to understand and respect you and other gay men, being promiscuous or not, but YOU don't respect straight women and decide we are all "bad people" who can't understand a thing about homosexuality.

If the answers you triggered are not what you expected, maybe you shouldn't have been so irrespectful even with those who tried to communicate with you with respect, with the "want" of understanding better what you wanted to convey. There are people who are open minded, but you slam the door in their head. So yes, after reading all your answers I have been angry with you and maybe I overreacted, but you weren't the most diplomate either (starting from your first post).
If you want repect, learn to respect the others too (your posts about straight women, again, were as bad as the post about "bicycle" (for ex)......).

If you only want people to be agree with you, you will be disappointed, life is not that simple.

As a "old" straight woman, I dream of the day when a woman wouldn't be called, slut, bitch,
cocks garage, ( and the beautiful expression "the only thing which didn't pass on her is the train"!) just for being born a woman !
Society considers women shouldn't love sex, so no need for us to be promiscuous to be despised, it's not something only gay promiscuous men experienced. It's the daily life for most of women. And yeah, we are in 2019, sighhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

I think people must be "educated"about homosexualty, but the way you reacted is not the best way to make people change their mind about it. You give them exactely what they need to keep "hating" promiscuous gay men (and promiscuous people in general).

And no, promiscuity is not a problem. Sex is not something we should be ashamed for, whatever our gender or sexuality is.

I'm perfectly aware that you know that monogamy exists but you didn't mention this in your rant about 'gay culture', presumably because it's more convenient for you. And... when did I even say you don't know about it? I suppose you can read so I can't comprehend what led you to this conclusion. From what I can see you're ignoring things that don't suit your views and twisting words of people that dare to disagree with you. This kind of behavior just proves your immaturity. I doubt that further discussion with you makes any sense.

You’re an icon literally an icon

WOW, maybe I'm more than bad at explaining myself than I thought.

"If you think one mean gay person is reason enough to despise and demonize all gay people for promiscuity maybe you never reallu cared about us."

Nowhere, absolutely nowhere in my comments I said I despise or demonize homosexuals for promiscuity. NOWHERE.
I quote mysellf : " Sex is not something we should be ashamed for, whatever our gender or sexuality is."
Another quote from another comment of mine : "Before being homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, pansexual, asexual................commited or promiscuous, people are just human beings. That's how I see things."

I don't know if your comment was really aimed to me, but clearly you misanderstood everything I wrote. I'm gonna take english lessons because it's clear that I failed to convey my thoughts.

I fucking don't judge people on their sexuality or on the number os partners they have. I judge them on their PERSONALITY. Is that hard to understand what I mean ?


Even when they are people who respect and support LGBT community, it's stronger than you, you reject them ! "There are people who are open minded, but you slam the door in their head."
And you are surprised that in 2019 things don't change ?
(In Brunei, the Sultan just voted a law that condemns to death by stoning homosexuals)

I still didn't talk about this story. Here, I don't care Makoto sleeping with everything that moves, they are all adults and consenting. The only thing which bothered me : it's implied that he had something with Shou-chan's father. I'm thinking myself (wrongly it seems) as an open minded person but sex with the father of the one you love it's a big no for me.

Peace and love, for everybody (even you)

First of all I don't see how my sexuality makes this convo different. I didn't mention my sexuality because I just wanted to have this conversation without the notion that my sexuality is what qualifies me to speak up.

I had a whole ass essay written but then I read the comment ab the bicycle and I was like alright I get your anger (still doesn't justify your original comment saying all straight girls are legit insane). I just want to clarify by "speak on behalf of them" I didn't mean you can't speak up for the community. I just meant don't generalize. And when I say community I meant the straight girl who was talking too. Like y'all were talking to each other like you represented the whole community. Both of you want to defend yourself/your community. I understand you're pissed at the comments but coming at them with a fuck u and ur emotions ain't gonna solve shit. There is no room for logical discussion and understanding when someone is angry.

Anywayssss fuck the person who wrote ab the bike, but also js even if this weren't a gay man sleeping around with everyone and their fathers no matter who the character, a straight woman/men, trans men/women,there would've been comments saying they're a slut. This story is literally doing the most. Any other story I'd agree with you. Sorry ended up writing another essay lol.

Ahhhh I didn't see that comment till after u said it what the actual fuckkk. Who the fuck says that shit. I'm acc insanely triggereddddddd(╯°Д °)╯╧╧

"I don’t usually comment but you straight girls are legit INSANE you’d hate actual gay culture where promiscuity multi sex partners and sexual freedom is legit a core identity for a lot of gay men (like me)...." He didn't say promiscuity is the epitome of gay culture, but he clearly said promiscuity is a legit core of the gay culture, ............which made me angry because not all gay men thinks/are like that, and it's sad that people judge gay men only on their "supposed" promiscuity.
Is it more clear ?

I know right! it's really sad how most yaoi readers don't understand what real gay relationships are like, and how some yaoi authors perpetuate really gross and wrong relationships, and mostly fetishize gay relationships. i would love to talk to someone abt this topic more! so, if you'd like to have a friendly debate or conversation, message me :)

U should understand that sleeping around isn't the problem with the Uke.. It's fine as long as no other person are hurt but there were many other factors which make the Uke unlikeable.. Also the author is to blame because she/he couldn't give us a good insight about the Uke and I could list all of them other points that make us not like the Uke but read the other comments and you'll understand..

List everything you don’t like if you want to have a discussion give me something to discuss don’t give me something vague you look like you’re talking just to hear your own voice for all intents and purposes I am still going to assume 99% of people don’t like him because he sleeps around too much