I disegree. love is not using other's for your needs and risk their life for your benfits. love is actually care about someone else without thinking of yourself only and what you get from it. the fact that it is exist, does not mean it is good or healthy.
you can called it distrective possessivens that mostly for Yenak benfit then "love". it's not about Diesal complain or not complain, the fact that women stay with a man that hit them and never complain does not mean it's a good thing for them. it actually very clear his way of showing his possessiveness is not healthy or good to anyone.
I know he is the bad guy. But he loved, he trusted and his loved one betrayed him. The last picture, oh man, I can hear his heart breaking.