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Let's be honest, we all know why people dislike Ye-eun . We have a single woman who has a BDSM harem and on top of that at least one guy has feelings for her but she still doesn't want a relationship.
It's always the same and I'm so tired of this fucking discussion.
I also have the feeling that some people can't differentiate between her "playing" the dom, what she says when she does it and her actual thoughts and actions. During a play you don't want hear "Are you okay? Am i allowed to ...?" from your dom the whole time. It ruins the mood. However, a dom still has to be considerate and that's what Ye-eun is. She never goes too far and makes sure that her subs feel good/pleasure.
And let's not forget how there are always people who are not into BDSM reading these stories (for reasons no one will ever understand) and then call the things that happen abusive because they don't get what's going on.
Anyways, I was almost sure what was waiting for me when I decided to read the comments but part of me still hoped that it would be different this time. I guess it's better to just avoid the discussion and enjoy the story.
And on a less serious note: How weak are you guys ;) ? Some of my male friends sit on my lap quite often (nothing sexual, just a joke in combination with a lack of seats) and I have no problem with it (my height and weight are average).
Preach peep just fucking preach!
yup, agreed lol
Yes, I also think that many people don't understand bdsm.
I had some conversations with "vanilla people" who could kind of understand the dom side, but they had trouble understanding, how someone could ever enjoy being bound/"forced"/spanked.
I know that there are many vanillas here as well, but some people here claimed to be into bdsm and be a dom. I hoped those people would join this discussion, but maybe the condition "solid arguments" scared them.
And yes, in a session I don't want to hear "Am I allowed to do this?" from my dom.
If I don't want something, I can say so. Or I can use my safeword.
Sure, I can avoid it, but I asked because I also enjoy good discussions. ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
I've read some comments like: People don't like the MC. MC is abusive. MC is raping the guys. MC is too harsh to the guys. MC is cheating. People would end up in jail, if they would do those things in reality.
I'm really confused. Did we read the same manga? Because I didn't see any abuse or rape.
- Liking or not liking someone is a subjective opinion, so I can understand this. I have also characters I don't like.
- Those are all grown men and have more physical strength, so they could easily push the MC away. And the "restrain" is a joke, they can still move around.
- In those 17 chapters, there is no information if MC cheated or not, so I don't understand why people assume this.
- MC is harsh towards Chulsoo, because he overstepped some boundarys by claiming to be her boyfriend. And he was yelling at her in front of a customer.
Don't forget, they have a bdsm-relationship, not some vanilla fluffy romance.
- Dorim was claiming to be the guy from the "drunken night". So MC got the info, Dorim had a dildo in his ass, he liked it and wants some more.
- Dowon was claiming the same things.
There are two things the MC did wrong.
Doing kind of a session drunk. But she's feeling guilty about it and apologized for it.
And doing kind of a session without checking the location (she should have closed the store before playing with Dorim).
So, dear haters, could you tell me with solid arguments, why you think the MC is abusive and horrible?