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Out of curiosity, where did you learn this shit sir/ madam xD

I mean, the genre of the yaoi pops up as BDSM if that was included.. Plus the authors already knew that. Thats why you can see them leaking while crying.

Guess its like a type of fetish or smh. But in real life, it feels as if your balls are heavy af. Plus you could risk getting an jnfection.

I think (because I'm a fujoshi, so female lol) it's because it's painful, if the guy can't come he gets kinda desperate and then finally relax after a long time. Not more pleasure, but I think he can enjoy more because it was denied for some time. Plus, some people get excited with pain and enjoy it even more. And the partner feels dominant because he can choose when his lover can come.

Learn what shit - Learned the penis tying off trend from yaoi I've read. Personal experience with my own dick accounts for my claims as to the physical sensations. Unless my dick feels different than your own? I ask the question to gain a greater understanding of other people's point of view/personal experience. I am already aware no everyone reacts the same to stimulation, so share your experience?

Not sure how damaging or risky of infection it is in reality, but I am glad someone else shares my sentiment of unpleasantness. I am all about rough sex, but not really into roleplay, bdsm, or degrading talk. Definitely not an S, unless its scratches... scar up my back to your heart's content.....

but you orgasm regardless of if it's tied off or not. It only stops the sum from leaving the urethra, it's already poured out from the testicles and is just backed up in the vas deferens or urethra. Pain is understandable, but not a fan of pain in my genitals. So peak pleasure should have already been reached upon orgasm... then pain until untying and allowing the ejaculate to leak out rather than shoot out.

But I do very much appreciate a female's perspective... but sorry to say the dom isn't preventing orgasm, just making it painful and delaying emission.

I asked because I had no clue that's what actually happened when tying off the uthera. I was curious how people got to this kind of stuff is all

That's normal, it just isn't your cup of tea, that's fine. I mean, everyone have some weird fetishes and have things they don't like. That's not something I appreciate to read either (but if the story still good, I read anyway), but some people like, at least, to read it, I think.