Ha, what is this shit? The character getting so 'mad' because his partner wasn't a virgin!...

Anonymous February 22, 2019 5:53 pm

Ha, what is this shit? The character getting so 'mad' because his partner wasn't a virgin! God, all it needed for yaoi cliche (that totally isn't some woman trying to view the sexism in her society from a male's viewpoint uh huh) 'I'm going to over write all your past lovers' 'I'm going to make my mark on you' 'I'm going to change your body so it only needs me' and all the other cliche shit yaoi authors write, in the role of the man talking about his girlfriend, sorry 'uke' who isn't a virgin.

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    Anonymous February 22, 2019 6:31 pm

    * Seriously though, you would expect a yaoi author to maybe not pander to the sexism, and have their 'uke' say something in response like 'so what?' as opposed to, ooohh seme you are my ReAl first. bruh

    Zenixpenzii February 24, 2019 12:04 pm
    * Seriously though, you would expect a yaoi author to maybe not pander to the sexism, and have their 'uke' say something in response like 'so what?' as opposed to, ooohh seme you are my ReAl first. bruh @Anonymous

    Just enjoy the manga

    Anonymous February 24, 2019 4:33 pm
    Just enjoy the manga Zenixpenzii

    The thing is, who actually finds this type of trope 'enjoyable'? A character getting mad, in his own words, because his partner isn't a virgin is seriously odd and disrespectful.

    Peach October 27, 2019 10:41 pm
    http://www.mangago.me/home/photo/3468708/replace "woman" with "partner"http://www.mangago.me/home/photo/3468516/#image Morcheeba

    He did not think of him as a slut because he slept with other people before him, stfu.

    Holiday411 April 16, 2020 12:29 am
    The thing is, who actually finds this type of trope 'enjoyable'? A character getting mad, in his own words, because his partner isn't a virgin is seriously odd and disrespectful. @Anonymous

    just enjoy the damn manga, and if your not brave enough to link your comment to your account then maybe you should not post it in the first place

    gaywildcat May 15, 2020 6:01 pm

    RIGHT!!

    gaywildcat May 15, 2020 6:05 pm
    just enjoy the damn manga, and if your not brave enough to link your comment to your account then maybe you should not post it in the first place Holiday411

    well then I am "brave enough" and Imma say it just like them, it isn't enjoyable to read a manga and feel like the uke is treated "like a woman" and how bad they treat them, you can argue and say this manga doesn't really do that BUT a lot of yaoi mangas do and that's pretty annoying, that's the point, now if you enjoy it, ok do your thing, but I'll still talk about it bc it's a harmful stereotype and we shouldn't be quiet about those things

    Holiday411 May 18, 2020 3:20 pm
    well then I am "brave enough" and Imma say it just like them, it isn't enjoyable to read a manga and feel like the uke is treated "like a woman" and how bad they treat them, you can argue and say this manga doe... gaywildcat

    That’s true, we shouldn’t be quiet about these things but if you think about the mindset of the author and the culture they came from, the reason most yaoi’s are like this is because their culture doesn’t support such things so their view of it might be a little twisted and most of the audience wants a “scandalous”... also sorry for my earlier comment, it was kinda rude and i regret it, but the thing is i believe that there is a better way of addressing the negatives of a manga without calling it shit. I do regret it he wa i responded but at that time, i was mostly focusing on the user calling it shit, and didn’t read the whole thing.... sorry anonymous user, you had every right to express your opinion and had some good points, and i can understand why you made yourself anonymous. So sorry, but maybe you could phrase it a bit differently, or at least not start it out with shit as your first statement, lol. But i totally get what u meant, it is fucked up.... but I’m the kinda person that has seen it so many times that i not reallly proud to admit it, but i got used to seeing this shit in a manga that i try to enjoy whatever good part there was. Also it pissed me off too how he reacted to him not being a Virgin.

    Holiday411 May 18, 2020 3:25 pm
    That’s true, we shouldn’t be quiet about these things but if you think about the mindset of the author and the culture they came from, the reason most yaoi’s are like this is because their culture doesn�... Holiday411

    Also i thought this was a common homophobic statement at first, so i didn’t even bother to, so sorry for my misunderstanding! I do with there were more healthy ya oí relationships in manga

    Holiday411 May 18, 2020 3:26 pm
    That’s true, we shouldn’t be quiet about these things but if you think about the mindset of the author and the culture they came from, the reason most yaoi’s are like this is because their culture doesn�... Holiday411

    Fuck, i meant yaoi... why the hel did autocorrect make it into ya oí? Lol

    gaywildcat May 18, 2020 5:19 pm
    That’s true, we shouldn’t be quiet about these things but if you think about the mindset of the author and the culture they came from, the reason most yaoi’s are like this is because their culture doesn�... Holiday411

    man it's totally fine, I agree with you, sometimes we say things bc we're mad and all but it's fine, I think you were a total badass coming here and saying what you think you did wrong, seriously. Like I said sometimes we just say things bc we're angry and come off too strong, anyway it's totally a mindset of the time and place but I think like you said we it's probably better if we just say the arguments and don't get too heated with it bc then people can try to understand us better bc it's such tropes that even if they're from certain time and place we should always say it's wrong to see what was wrong about it and move on

    gaywildcat May 18, 2020 5:22 pm
    Fuck, i meant yaoi... why the hel did autocorrect make it into ya oí? Lol Holiday411

    LOL that happens to me ALL the time and you can't even edit your comment or delete it here so you really gotta read it thousands of times and really think about it, meaning all my grammar mistakes will be here for people to see it and shame me for it forever and ever ╥﹏╥

    Peach May 18, 2020 10:41 pm
    Fuck, i meant yaoi... why the hel did autocorrect make it into ya oí? Lol Holiday411

    That's such a posh way of saying it, I like it

    Holiday411 May 19, 2020 11:03 pm
    LOL that happens to me ALL the time and you can't even edit your comment or delete it here so you really gotta read it thousands of times and really think about it, meaning all my grammar mistakes will be here ... gaywildcat

    lol i never thought of that, but now it’s going to haunt me so much i’m going to double triple check and feel horrified when there are mistakes

    i can see it now....

    me:*after double triple checking* ok i can post this, its readable

    me after i post it: HOW DID I SPELL MY OWN USERNAME WRONG?!? AND IF I CANT SPELL THAT, HOW AM I STILL ALIVE? WHY DO PEOPLE CALL ME SMART? I CANT SPELL TO SAVE MY LIFE! ALSO IF IM SMART, THE FUTURE IS LOOKING A LITTLE LESS BRIGHT....( ̄∇ ̄")

    JustALittleWet August 24, 2020 11:06 pm
    just enjoy the damn manga, and if your not brave enough to link your comment to your account then maybe you should not post it in the first place Holiday411

    I agree