Polyamourous? Opinions

Stavious February 15, 2019 6:52 am

I'm curious as to how polyamorous relationships are viewed by others as i come from a conservative place, personally i don't care if you are one or not but make sure not to rope people who may not want to have something to do with it. To sum it up, my opinion on this is that if you ain't hurting or forcing this to others then i don't really care on how you proceed with it, and as well as learn to take responsibility to it.
How about others?

Responses
    takame February 15, 2019 7:08 am

    I'm not a jealous person but I don't want to share my lover. However if I see my friend in it, I'd respect their wishes as long as it isn't toxic.

    It is different when you are just reading fiction though. I love Ntrs and gang bangs (YEAH YEAH I'M that kind of fujoshi)

    Fizzybabe February 15, 2019 7:32 am

    Don't know about real life but i'm ok with polyamorous relationships in fiction. And yeah i'm from a conservative place too

    InsomniacEnigma February 15, 2019 7:36 am

    I have the same opinion as u, it's fine as long as all the people involved consented to this kind of relationship and agreed to accept the responsibilities involving it.

    However, personally, I myself wouldn't want to be involved in a polyamourous relationship. I am worried that this type of relationship wouldn't last long; like, in my eyes, it's easier to encounter problems that could lead to a break-up; especially since there are more people involved.

    Since this is uncommon, most people wouldn't be used or even easily agree to it, therefore, there's a possibility that there would be a slight discomfort/ opposition to the idea inside a person's subconsciousness. If an event occurs where an individual sees that the other two feels closer, jealousy could blossom; like they may feel left out and think that they are just being dragged along. (ofc, this is only a possibility, there are other possible reasons)

    In the end, it's their choices, if they want to at least experience it, trusts and loves all the people involved then go for it. I just don't recommend it imo.

    InsomniacEnigma February 15, 2019 7:42 am

    wow my grammar today is on point! (not), but hopefully, u get my point. To put it shortly; it's their choice, just be aware about the people involved, consequences, responsibilities, etc etc... think carefully

    pigglypoof February 15, 2019 11:35 am

    As long as it's between consenting adults, it shouldn't be an issue. Of course I imagine it's harder to maintain a healthy and balanced relationship when there are more people involved. It's definitely not for me, but I do think there are a few people who can make it work.

    wet0mega February 15, 2019 12:25 pm

    As long as there is consent I don't see the problem. I personally wouldn't mind being in an (all parts consenting) poly relationship myself tbh lol.

    Sinner February 15, 2019 12:54 pm

    I personally do not agree to a polymourous relationship but still I have respect for people who are into it, I mean, it is their life and they can do what they want. A polymourous relationship shouldn't be a problem as long as there is consent from each individuals in the relationship. Though I'm really curious as to how they can maintain a balance distribution of affection and attention towards their partners? Or more like, on how they work with it. It seems to be complicated to me. I just don't like the idea of sharing my lover to other people so I'm a little bit opposed to it. I'm quite possessive you see. Just thinking of my lover being overly friendly with someone else makes me annoyed. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Basement Dweller February 15, 2019 1:58 pm

    You mean like a polyamory relationship right?
    Well i absolutely hate it. (My opinion)
    I mean to me its like an excuse for people who dont know who to truly love or like an excuse for cheating kinda like "your my gf we have been in a relationship for 6 years but this girl is hot so im keeping you both" im okay wih people being in on it but me? In a polyamory? No way. And i think that polyamory wouldnt be a succesful kind of relationship cause there will always be a time ONE OF THEM would feel incomplete and would start wondering what its like to be That ONE AND ONLY person he/she loves the most...

    Kaito.Hat February 15, 2019 2:36 pm

    Personally, I don't mind. As long as all parties consent to the relationship, it's not really my business. I do have my reserves about it; I tend to avoid fictional works that depict it b/c I just can't really relate to it and that feeling makes me uncomfortable (but who knows, if it was a more common depiction, maybe I'd be more open to reading about it--Note: Poly and threesomes aren't the same thing so don't @ me saying poly is a common depiction in fiction)

    Kaito.Hat February 15, 2019 2:37 pm

    Personally, I don't mind. As long as all parties consent to the relationship, it's not really my business. I do have my reserves about it; I tend to avoid fictional works that depict it b/c I just can't really relate to it and that feeling makes me uncomfortable (but who knows, if it was a more common depiction, maybe I'd be more open to reading about it--Note: Poly and threesomes aren't the same thing so don't @ me saying poly is a common depiction in fiction)