I have that kind of friend too .I just keep in mind maybe she's not the type who'll listen but she's a good friend .don't let one bad things covers thousand good things about her.
Anyway that's why you call her your friend is it?
I completely agree with you, you can't let one flaw dictate your relationship.
cant stand people who gossip tbh
Oh I had one like that too ! The minute after I told her I was feeling very down and bordering suicidal, she stood up and left :) It kinda... destroyed me? Anyway, I think you should stop opening up to her because you're only going to hurt yourself. And try to find friends who're willing to listen before what's bottled up comes to the surface full force.
i tried opening up to my friend about my problems today and she just. avoided it and then proceeded to gossip like usual. come to think of it, she's always like that. i never really had anyone to talk to. i don't even kow why i'm venting here.