I think they mean that the person who takes the dick in has a more feminine role. It even dates back to Ancient Athens where if two guys were doing it the person who is getting penetrated is not seen a manly so, yes sometimes people get turned into on when they imagine themselves as a girl getting penetrated
hahaha turning a guy into a woman is so nice ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
and what he says is just verbal abuse and some people get excited by it (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I must admit I said a similar line to a guy while I was fucking his ass (▰˘◡˘▰)
so yeah someone gets turned on by lines like this and it´s me ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I hate that "pussy" talk with a passion, too. I have the same objections. Why are they bringing women into it at all? When I read yaoi, I don't want to be reading about women's vaginas. It really grosses me out, and I don't know anyone who reads yaoi who likes it.
I like the sex A LOT!!! I like the art. I'm the last person who is going to enjoy the cross-dressing crap, but I can tolerate it from this mangaka
"Hiroto-kun's place which will become a woman"
"You became like a girl"
"Being subdued like a woman by someone who looks like one"
Okay does anyone actually get turned on by lines like this??? Because for me they are a huge turn off and makes me think mangaka who write them have some serious internalized misogyny. I mean maybe I'm reading too much into it, because I don't even know what I'm supposed to take away from these lines. WTF does it mean for a man to become like a women during sex? What are women like? Okay nope the more I think about the more I think I'm definitely not reading too much into it, this is internalized misogyny if I've ever seen it.
I came to BL to get away from porn and smut where women are "subdued", I don't want to be reminded of that shit when I'm reading a manga with two guys fucking. Why should women be brought up at all during sex between men??? I wish otherwise amazing BL would stop with these lines already. I could barely keep reading. This bothers me way more than the blurry consent. I've seen similar stuff in so many BL too.