It's because imagination and fiction is better than real life. I'm 21 and I had 3 boyfriends and I never enjoyed kissing even tho I liked them for their personalities. Kissing was just always awkward and strange for me but in fiction it's erotic.
Should mention that I'm asexual, 5 years since I've realized that.
Yeah, it does feel nice. I don't know why but the feeling of someone's lips touching mine always makes me feel giddy on the inside. But I guess it depends on the person, like maybe some people would rather not.
Some people probably enjoy it, but I've always had a thing against Saliva. Took me years to even let my friends drink from the same cup as me. I never kissed my Ex, sure we did a quick peck on the lips but never frenched. Though I should mention I'm asexual and aromantic. Haven't dated since.
I enjoy kissing, it does feel good. It isn't anything excessively good mind me, but still when you do it you don't wanna stop. I can understand how you may find the idea a bit disgusting but it's not that much of a big deal. Kissing is a way of expressing attraction and brings you closer to the other person. Also mind that people may have preferences about kissing, some don't like deep wet kisses some do... so to each is own, you will find out when you do it.
if the other person knows how to kiss then yes, kissing is pretty nice.
my first kiss was way back so i cant actually remember how exactly did it feel but it was a bit awkward for sure. believe me, the first time is always weird. either cause u r nervous or ur partner is not experienced(if u have ur first kiss when u r a bit older there are lower chances for the 2nd to occur).
i dont know ur age so i cant tell if its normal or not to feel a bit weird about it but its the most normal thing u'll do when u r in a relationship.
Take it from someone who was a kissing whore in their teens lol it can be nice or awful. Depends on your attraction to the person. Honestly I don’t remember much from the first. During the first it’s like you’re so nervous you blank out. Then at home you feel so tingly and can’t stop thinking about that person
To all of you out there who have experienced more things in life than me, is kissing honestly nice? When i read it (like in a book) or see it drawn in manga it looks quite nice and enjoyable, but when i try to imagine kissing someone it's just a mouth against a mouth with a bit of licking, nothing i would enjoy. A kiss feels like a weird awkward angle with noses and teeth getting in the way, and i get more repulsive than turned on imagining a tounge in my mouth. And even wothout tpunge, i can't really understand the appeal in just pressing lips against each other?? I think this have something to do with what i asked about in a previous question (about how i can't imagine getting turned on by a body and if i'm asexual/demi etc. Feel free to answer that question too, if you wanna), and it further pushes my suspicion about me being ace or demi. I get that a first kiss can be pretty bad and awkward, since you're inexperienced etc. But even with a good kisser i can't imagine it as anything other than wet, slippery and messy. To mee, kissing feels like something i wouldn't neccesarily enjoy or dislike, just something i would do because i like a person and would do it for them. Is kissing nice to you guys? Does anyone feel the same as I? Is this repulsivness something normal, that's gonna disappear after i actually experienve a kiss? I welcome all answers and theories, give it to me ( • ω• )✧