So many of you are victim blaming shiwoo so hard and it's so disappointing. He just got ou...

fixxle December 17, 2018 7:46 pm

So many of you are victim blaming shiwoo so hard and it's so disappointing. He just got out of a relationship where he was nearly beaten to death and you expect him to open up a few hours after? The effects of abuse is long-term. Shiwoo is experiencing the battered person syndrome. Battering in a relationships happens in cycles. It starts with the tension building phase where there develops an animosity between the lovers, then the battery phase where the victim gets beaten and manipulated, then the third phase is the loving phase where the abuser asks for forgiveness. It's a cycle, it happens over and over again. Shiwoo experienced this for god knows how long. How dare you expect him to suddenly be clear-headed and know what he wants. The effects of abuse are not just physical, it's psychological, emotional and mental. I love yujin but eunchan is absolutely right. He's behaving like a kid who throws tantrums because he didn't get what he wants (shiwoo's love). His dedication to shiwoo is amazing and i won't exactly blame him for being angry at the situation, but between shiwoo and yujin, it's shiwoo who needs more understanding and patience from everyone else. I feel so bad for him. Stop blaming him.

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    ShorngShxrng December 18, 2018 2:18 pm

    I’m on your side. Please tell the whole world to at least think about how Shiwoo feel. Put your head in his shoes please. Don’t expect someone with trauma to open up to someone in a few hours. Even if you give them 100 years they can’t even open their mouth to speak with you. Because you don’t give them your support. Look at that fucker Yujin he said all those hurtful things to Shiwoo. What if you’re the one that Shiwoo said those word to instead? Will you feel happy and open up to him. NOO YOU WON’T AND YOU WILL NEVER EVER DO. ヽ(`Д´)ノ