I don't get what people mean when they say it's "a waste..." Very confusing.

JPE December 11, 2018 9:47 am

I don't get what people mean when they say it's "a waste..." Very confusing.

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    coconut December 11, 2018 11:16 am

    it means that he can find someone better.
    For these people, he doesn't meet his ''standard''

    JPE December 11, 2018 1:04 pm
    it means that he can find someone better.For these people, he doesn't meet his ''standard'' coconut

    No no, it's a common reply to finding out someone is gay. I don't know how it was intended in this story, but in real life it's marshalled against gay people all the time. My newsfeed was filled with it when Tom Daley came out.

    coconut December 11, 2018 1:45 pm
    No no, it's a common reply to finding out someone is gay. I don't know how it was intended in this story, but in real life it's marshalled against gay people all the time. My newsfeed was filled with it when To... JPE

    oh okay, i didn't see it that way

    Shuu December 11, 2018 5:12 pm
    No no, it's a common reply to finding out someone is gay. I don't know how it was intended in this story, but in real life it's marshalled against gay people all the time. My newsfeed was filled with it when To... JPE

    In that case Im sure it's how people view a heterosexual relationship as the "perfect pairing" so if someone comes out as homosexual it is then a "loss/waste" because that perfect pairing can't happen now. All BS basically

    JPE December 11, 2018 11:59 pm
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    Maybe but I think it means that a good looking guy is being wasted, cause he could have made some woman very happy... Which is why it's so confusing, cause you could call a straight man a waste cause he could've made some man very happy.

    Maybe you're right though... idk

    weloveanim December 12, 2018 9:51 am
    No no, it's a common reply to finding out someone is gay. I don't know how it was intended in this story, but in real life it's marshalled against gay people all the time. My newsfeed was filled with it when To... JPE

    In this case it isn't related too sexuality / gender of the uke, but rather his standard (personality, talent,...)