Why are people here so against a relationship between cousins? Dude, i dont know if it's ...

AyumiVk December 4, 2018 7:07 am

Why are people here so against a relationship between cousins?
Dude, i dont know if it's only here or not, but in my country you can marry even if you are cousins. Actually, i had a friend in middle school whose parents were cousins, lol

Responses
    narumaki December 4, 2018 7:43 am

    considering i call my cousin's parents aunt and uncle aka theyre related to me through one of my parents, ill pass. theres like 7 billion people in the world, why settle with someone related to you?

    AyumiVk December 4, 2018 12:00 pm
    considering i call my cousin's parents aunt and uncle aka theyre related to me through one of my parents, ill pass. theres like 7 billion people in the world, why settle with someone related to you? narumaki

    Maybe because they love each other? They may be related but are not sons of the same parents and its proven children of cousins dont come with health issues just because of that.

    narumaki December 4, 2018 9:50 pm
    Maybe because they love each other? They may be related but are not sons of the same parents and its proven children of cousins dont come with health issues just because of that. AyumiVk

    every heard the saying, "just because you can doesn't mean you should"?

    AyumiVk December 4, 2018 11:37 pm
    every heard the saying, "just because you can doesn't mean you should"? narumaki

    And just because thats your opinion it doesnt mean it is the same as mine. I stand by hat i already said, if there's love then the rest doesnt matter.. i mean, they're just cousins for god's sake.

    narumaki December 5, 2018 9:05 pm
    And just because thats your opinion it doesnt mean it is the same as mine. I stand by hat i already said, if there's love then the rest doesnt matter.. i mean, they're just cousins for god's sake. AyumiVk

    you mean youre marrying and having kids with your blood relative for god's sake. and your "Maybe because they love each other?" logic doesnt work on so many levels.

    AyumiVk December 5, 2018 9:57 pm
    you mean youre marrying and having kids with your blood relative for god's sake. and your "Maybe because they love each other?" logic doesnt work on so many levels. narumaki

    Well, it doesnt work for YOU. And if that was the case, hypothetically speaking, then what if we were blood relatives? Look, by that logic you're using then i can also say everyone in the world is related by blood/DNA and therefore nobody can fall in love, marry or whatever.

    I just made a comment expressing my own personal opinion about the matter, i knew i world get shit as always, but can we just stop here? Im not interested in arguing about this with anyone, i just simply wanted to let my opinion out.
    If you continue then ill just have to do something i dont want to.

    MangaFan December 6, 2018 5:55 pm

    I think it's because in some places the dynamic between cousins is much more family oriented. Like for me personally my cousins are like siblings practically so it would be really creepy. And other people i know, even if they aren't close the fact that they are related is heavily focused on. So it just all depends on where you live I think, and most of these comments are probably from places where the view is like this

    Zoey Zoey Zoey December 7, 2018 11:03 pm

    For me, personally it’s a big no. As in it’s not for me. Although there are cousins I don’t know so who knows but cousins I do know, hell no. But I’m live and let live. As long as percausions are taken in heterosexual relationships (if they want to have a baby, using doner sperm or eggs) then I don’t care how closely related you are as long as there’re of age and able to consent. My only discomfort comes in with a parent child combo. That’s hard. I just feel like there’re a power dynamic that’s unavoidable and unhealthy. Also maybe bc my dad molested his daughter’s and I’ve been so incredibly damaged by that, that I’m unable to be rational. But aside from that really as long as there’s no grooming or coercion and there’s no chance of an innocent child suffering the consequences, I don’t care and don’t think any of my business. A benefit of being gay and in a close familial relationship is that they don’t have to worry about inbred babies happening by accident.

    NorasManga December 22, 2018 8:34 am

    Yup. In my country also marriage between is allowed. Those ppl who dont like the idea, at least respect ppl feeling or their country proposition....(づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    jade4dayzz December 22, 2018 10:49 pm
    Yup. In my country also marriage between is allowed. Those ppl who dont like the idea, at least respect ppl feeling or their country proposition....(づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ NorasManga

    hahaha, that's rich, so other countires allow child marriages and rape and abuse towards women, so i should respect their country proposition? please.

    AyumiVk December 22, 2018 11:39 pm
    hahaha, that's rich, so other countires allow child marriages and rape and abuse towards women, so i should respect their country proposition? please. jade4dayzz

    I cant believe you dare to compare rape and abuse to love relationships between cousins that are not hurting anyone LMAO

    NorasManga December 23, 2018 12:47 am
    hahaha, that's rich, so other countires allow child marriages and rape and abuse towards women, so i should respect their country proposition? please. jade4dayzz

    Haha.. what a pathetic human being... You can't differentiate the difference easily.. LMAO. ...

    jade4dayzz December 23, 2018 1:19 am
    Haha.. what a pathetic human being... You can't differentiate the difference easily.. LMAO. ... NorasManga

    lmao, im calling you out on the fact that you told people to respect what their countries allow, even though its wrong. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ clearly you cant comprehend that.

    jade4dayzz December 23, 2018 1:22 am
    I cant believe you dare to compare rape and abuse to love relationships between cousins that are not hurting anyone LMAO AyumiVk

    if you really want to suck your cousin's dick, i wont stop you. (︶︿︶) just know that if youre able to marry your cousin without being squeamish clearly youre able to marry anyone else that's related to you. ick.

    AyumiVk December 23, 2018 1:22 am
    lmao, im calling you out on the fact that you told people to respect what their countries allow, even though its wrong. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ clearly you cant comprehend that. jade4dayzz

    I believe the person only brought up the different countries aspect to only this specific topic and not abuse. Its not like they said people should respect everything within other countries politics even if different, you are just assuming things.

    AyumiVk December 23, 2018 1:25 am
    if you really want to suck your cousin's dick, i wont stop you. (︶︿︶) just know that if youre able to marry your cousin without being squeamish clearly youre able to marry anyone else that's related to... jade4dayzz

    Wow, you're really stupid :o
    If i wanted to suck my cousin's dick and he consented then that would not be your problem at all in the first place.
    You cant admit you're wrong so now you resorted to attacking people, what a really grown up thing to do.

    JunglePeach December 23, 2018 3:10 am

    .... inbreeding leads to abnormalities... theres is a more than little risk of having a child with a mental or physical disorder by having a child with someone who shares your blood..thats why its seen as more than taboo in various places where it isnt a culture and/or tradition..

    NorasManga December 23, 2018 3:47 am
    lmao, im calling you out on the fact that you told people to respect what their countries allow, even though its wrong. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ clearly you cant comprehend that. jade4dayzz

    There is countries that allow them to be with their cousins.. which century were you born? "Even though its wrong"?? Hahaha.... poor soul..

    AyumiVk December 23, 2018 5:02 pm
    .... inbreeding leads to abnormalities... theres is a more than little risk of having a child with a mental or physical disorder by having a child with someone who shares your blood..thats why its seen as more ... JunglePeach

    As i said before, scientists already confirmed that between COUSINS their children dont come with problems, its up to the people to believe in that or not though.

    Cake Overlordess December 28, 2018 8:59 am

    Hey, my paternal great-grandparents were first cousins it happened a lot back then.