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THIS tbh. I wondered why the scene bugged me so much. The logic in the story itself and the rationalization behind it is fucked up! He's lucky he's hot!
I agree 100% and have been screeching about his redundancy and the sheer lack of logic in his actions literally since the chapter it started. I had a whole rant about this that chapter here: http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/3478921/
What gets to me isn't the supposedly non-consensual sex stuff in and of itself, but the hypocrisy of the character. The seme is the one who has decided that sex is off limits and is playing games, then goes ahead and does something because HE is sexually frustrated, blaming the uke for that. The next morning even underscores this obvious contradiction when the uke makes it obvious that he is perfectly willing to have sex. So it is the seme's own fault if he's frustrated.
It also raises the question if he's even right. He's assuming that having sex without a meaningful relationship won't get him what he wants. So he's holding out for an ideal and playing games. But he doesn't consider that he may just lose out. If it was RL that is what would happen if you tried to force someone into relationship in that way, instead of building intimacy in any way you could.