You should treasure yourself more.take it slow with this new guy and take as much time as you need when bad memories surface.despite the fact he looks like your ex if you are comfortable with him,give him a chance.however this time do not forget to set some boundaries to protect yourself.great this as an opportunity for growth and not downfall.
Good luck dear
Treat*
Thank you, your words are really kind. I'm so confused right know that I am shaking ... Besides just the thought of someone new that might try to approach me scares me to death, I don't know if I'm ready for anything
I'm not sure how I can help,,, but I hope you can stay strong no matter what path your relationship goes down i hope you can stay happy, confident, beautiful, and strong,,,
I believe in you,,, (づ˘◡˘)づ hugs from Australia,,,
Thank you so much you guys are so adorable it cheers me up :D
You got it
Of you're not ready then don't rush it,it's not worth it
Okay as an outsider looking in, take my opinion with a grain of salt. I wouldn't ignore him but talk to him instead about your worries. Also, if he says it's okay and wants to be in a relationship with you, but you still feel doubt and confusion, then I think you should take time to figure out what you want. It would be fair to both him and you if you sort out what's troubling you at the start, so that you aren't haunted by your past relationship later on when you're with your current guy. May you have a happy relationship!
Thank you, I don't know if I have the courage to face him ... For now I'll just try to calm down, this story has brought back so many sad memories it had me all confused.
Yes you're right, ah it's really troublesome
well dont ignore him if hes really ur type.. but if he like asks u out then just say that ur not right for a relationship rn and see wut he says and does? if he says its fine and he'll wait for u if the times right then u dont have to worry.. try to get to know him more.. well idk if that was any help xD Σ(っ°Д °;)っ
So I see that here some people post their problems and I'd like to post mine too.
I had a really bad relationship with a man who hurt me in many ways, he abused me and get rid of me when he wanted. I've healed myself and everything was fine until I met this guy. He is really similar he has quite the same looks. I'm afraid because we talked a lot he seems interested and I can't deny he is my type. But I'm afraid because of my previous experience. Am I attracted to him because of my ex ? Am I falling again for the same trap ?
I start to remember sad memories and I'm really confuse.
I feel really bad because I might be attracted by him just because of somethings that I haven't resolve...
Should I just ignore him ? I'm so scared....