How do i know if am actually bi or if im being influenced by those around me and unconscio...

nafu November 23, 2018 2:35 pm

How do i know if am actually bi or if im being influenced by those around me and unconsciously trying to fit in.
im not like completely surrounded by queer people or anything like that. most are straight but thepeople at my school are generally really open about their sexualities and ive learned to be open minded about it too. sometimes i think that i would not mind dating a girl and see myself with a girlfriend in the future but ive never been turned on by a girl? its always guys that actually arouse me. so im wondering if me thinking im bi is just something i want to explore or is it actually my orientation?

Responses
    Lünåpea November 23, 2018 3:02 pm

    Honestly it all comes down to who you can actually see yourself spending your life with, if you could see yourself in a relationship with a woman and don’t dislike it then you probably are attracted to woman. And about not being turned on by girls, i know there are bisexual woman who are more often attracted to men than women, yet the fact that they still experience attraction to woman ( even if it’s not often ) still means they’re bisexual. However if you don’t think you could have sex with a woman you could just be straight (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ Hope that helps!!

    Fujoshi goddess November 23, 2018 4:55 pm

    Ummm in my opinion you are just thinking that u might like girls but you are not.U just said that only guys can make you arouse so i think u r still straight.Tho u said u can imaging urself with a girl its just nothing more than a friend or just sister feelings...

    UncleMikami November 23, 2018 6:21 pm

    I have a friend who wanted to be bi and was experimenting but when she tried sleeping with a woman it didn’t work out. I’m not saying you need to do that to confirm, but you shouldn’t try to force yourself to feel a certain way. You are who you are and it’s also possible that you may feel some attraction or romantic feelings to women but not be sexually attracted. I’ve also wondered before if I’m bi and I don’t think so but it’s ok to be unsure. It’s even ok if you want to settle on being “straight” or “queer” or “bi” for now and change your mind later if you learn more about yourself.