All S&M Yaoi should be like this

arebg452 November 19, 2018 3:23 am

All S&M Yaoi should be like this

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    Rex November 25, 2018 10:57 pm

    It's not S&M tho ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    arebg452 November 26, 2018 2:51 am

    It is actually a very good example. The seme is a sadist and the uke is a self-proclaimed masochist, but unlike most relationships of this type (specially yaoi) there is no abuse or humiliation that borders in the unhealthy. They both have specific sexual needs and they managed to find someone that can satisfy those needs without hurting or degrading them. S&M can have a lot of levels and is usually pumped up to the max in every story, where it pretty much becomes abuse. I'm just glad to see another side of it that can tackle the proclivities while still being fairly fluffy.

    sensei desu ga December 11, 2018 5:23 pm
    It is actually a very good example. The seme is a sadist and the uke is a self-proclaimed masochist, but unlike most relationships of this type (specially yaoi) there is no abuse or humiliation that borders in ... arebg452

    My thoughts exactly! I'm glad someone else noticed it 'cause S&M wasn't even mentioned directly

    Blue December 22, 2018 3:51 pm
    It's not S&M tho ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ Rex

    Actually it's the very definition of S&M. Anyone that thinks that s&m is like Fifty Shades of Grey or the nonsense portrayed in movies and on tv has no business trying it out. There are specific rules and guidelines that you follow and s&m isn't always causing physical pain or humiliating someone or making them completely submissive. Instead it's a variety of things that fall under there. In this case one of the two enjoys being mildly verbally degraded and having his control taken away while the other gets off on bullying his partner. That type of s&m is brat and brat tamer.