I personally usually drop it because most harem mangas confuse "character and plot development" with "adding another character to the plot".
There's a ton of other reasons (using characters as accessories to the mary/gary sue mc, poorly done cliche tropes, boring relationships between characters, sexiness being confused for personality, lack of true romance in favor of gag romance tropes, etc. etc) but the first one is the one I find most egregious.
YES!!! this is what i want to hear, i mean read...
if harem destroy story plot and author make too much scene about MC harem( espesially ecchi scene), i will drop it too...for me its fine to make harem on MC but author musn't too focused on harem...but if harem didn't ruin story plot or MC growth, then i'm fine with it...
well, I drop bc i think is going to be the same harem thing over and over
the girl likes the boy
then another boy comes in and say "NO I LOVE HER HARDER"
then the two boys starts a whole figth between each other
and the girl just gets confused and act like a retard.
Im not saying this is the definition of harem, thats just what i think it is. Please, dont hate on me just bc of such stupid reason...
I usually avoid harem tags when they have ecchi in them. It's just a no, a huge ass no when ecchi is envoled in an harem, and recarnation seems to have alot of fucking harem like it's normal. The guy isn't even hot can you fucking stop you thots.
There is some harem ones, like this recarnation where he becomes stronger, and the females help him. I don't think he finds them in any way romantic because he saw them as they were all a child, and plus he wants revenge
And oh my god there was this manga with an harem with little fucking kids involved and I thought it was going to be a heart warming story because it involved an orphange but what the HonEST FUCK MAN THERE KIDS DONT BLUSH WHEN YOU SEE THEM NAKED SOMEONE GET THE FUCKING POLICE
Also reverse harems are...annoying, definitely if the girl is weak and cant make decisions for herself. Plus the guys are like,really fucking pushy like sexually pushy and the girl is like lmao ok next
Yona of the Dawn is the only one I like. Strong ass female lead, hot men with some BL in there, green dragon I know you gae, beautiful characters, the plot goes with the harem, and >:O where the next season of the anime
i don't understand why some people drop a manga because of harem / harem tag...
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