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He forced him to suck him. That's rape buddy.
Rape is "unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority, or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent."
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But clearly that's not true, because so many people point it out in every BL. No one is blind to it, people notice it. I'm still fairly certain that most of the people who are fine with it, or even turned in by it, in yaoi would feel horrible if they or their loved ones were raped, and not feel forgiving. And those who would be forgiving might very well feel like that without ever reading any yaoi.
Violent videogames don't make most people more violent and Dexter didn't create a bunch of serial killers. It always goes deeper than just our media.
But all that said I am all for the healthier trends because I find them a nicer read. And I think having these discussions is important, even if I disagree with your conclusion. You make good points worth thinking about.
Rape again. Thats a bit disappointing.