Nothing, There will always be no excuse to hurt someone and treat them like dirt. I can't believe that people actually forgive people just because of their past lives. I understand that he was hurt and he wasn't ready to heal but DG didn't want to be in a relationship/friends with benefits where he is just being treated like a sex doll. Now, look at DG he might be traumatized because of what Jihoon did to him.
P.S I dislike Jihoon alot but the past story helped, but that doesn't mean that I already like him.I'm just saying that I understand but I still dislike him
HAHA, I bet ya'll NEVER experienced anything like Jiwon, so it's very easy to talk on your high horses and just judging with zero emphaty.
Well, I did have similar experineces like him, so I can tell you:
IT'S NOT THAT FUCKING EASY.
(and yes, I absolutely don't belive in that "love" and "trust" bs, and propably I'll just die alone, but it's fine, because at least I won't get hurt anymore.)
Please, don't go making assumptions like people talking on their high horses. What do you know about someone's empathy?
Like I said earlier, liking him particularly depends on how he will behave from now on. I know how much it is to be on the brother's side. I don't know if it is how he acted with Jiwon but with my sister, we are best friends and even if our parents treated us differently we are always togheter because we got past that. That treatement didn't stop her to be always good and caring to people. She also had her fair share of jerks around her but she is happy right now with her husband.
Again, his past is not for him to be excused of what he is now. I'm saying that by showing it we were able to understand why he is acting like that. I always believe in cause and effect theory.
I cannot judge you on how you perceive things but have you no heart? He's an outcast, the parents that supposed to support him is abusing him mentally and emotionally and the guy he thought that would make him out of that misery added to the injury.
Can't you see, the result in all of that is him being an asshole, cold and distant. But this is not him. He is wearing a mask to avoid himself in getting hurt again. If you can see, how he is friendly and kind to those people not close to him but acted an asshole if you are able to reach the deepest part of him. That's why, I said before DG is slowly breaking that ice around him. DG has to endure this because he is the first person who tried to get close to him, the first person outside of work that knows he's dj Alex who he admires so much and saying he loved him seriously. The very word he hate so much..
Sorry if this is too long. It's just that it frustrates me. I just want to let this out and I'm sure this will just be thrown in the air like it's nothing.
Oh please, how are you so sure that all of us here are not being pressured by their parents? My sister is a graduate in a top university here in the Philippines (UP Diliman). She almost graduated as a cum laude because she was 2 points short but still, that's saying a lot because she enrolled in one of the most prestigious school here in the Philippines. Now put yourself in my shoes and my two other siblings. My brother got arrested because of drugs. Now imagine being by your parents that you will end up like your brother and hun, I tell you, the favoritism is real but that was never ever an excuse to become an immature brat who only thinks that he/she is the only one who got problems. bitch, even though I am not the brightest , even though they talk like they know everything about me. I am still grateful because they fed me, they gave me a roof on top of my head, and they still give me a chance even though they keep repeating that I am not good enough, It's not easy but deal with it yourself, don't involve people. Talk to people who will listen to your problems and help you get a solution to your problem. Be stronger because no one will defend you, Be considerate because you should know the sacrifices of other people, Be mature because you will not go anywhere with childish mindset.
It's nothing. I've read it all and thanks for explaining your view with such a detailed argument.
It is not that I'm heartless. I understand his actions very well. He had shitty parents and a passive brother. I get that. He also has put a mask on all is life because he wanted a word of appreciation from his parents. When he didn't get that, he was happy getting that from his friends and from the jerk brother's friend. At one point the jerk broke his heart and he continued to put on his mask in adulthood. In term of love, he was distant. As for social, he is a kind of hypocrite, his gentleness is for nothing more than receiving words of appreciation. That what makes him what he is.
But that does not make him like him for now. He has only shows himself to DG, and at the end he denied that persona. He has to come in terms with his personnality and feelings to make me like him.
Long story short, I understand him, but I still dislike him for now. You have a point though and I like your comment.
How yah doin' there Jiwon haters???? !!!!! Anyone????
Don't judge until you figure out what really the cause of it. Tsk tsk and you know what, there's more to come so save your heartless comments for later or have you had changed of hearts now...