Try talking with your mother to see what advice she can give you. It'll be better to let your mother or step-father know all of this, have a sit down and talk. Or maybe try asking your sister to help with the issue too somehow, do what you believe is right for you.
First of all, thank you so much for answer me. I thought no one was going to read this!
I actually talked to them and they agree I should stop talking to him, my mother even said she would this for me, but if I'm the one who is responsible for this, so I'm gonna be the one to talk. They say I should be polite and direct and just say "It's not working, let's stop to see each other" (sounds like a couple break out lol), but I'm too afraid to hurt him. I'm thinking about picking a fight and just use it as an excuse, but I'm no good doing this.
Thanks a lot for answering, when you said i should do what I believe is right made me feel really better and confidente in myself!ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
What? I'm sorry, if I annoyed you posting this kind of thing here (I know I shouldn't, most of people come here to read manga) and you felt like you needed to troll me. But if you want to speak seriously about your point of view, feel free to do. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Gah I feel you. Well, a bit. I also don't really feel any attachment to my father (I grew up without a father, cause my mom and my dad separated when I was 1 year old) but now our family reconnected (for a few years now) because of financial reasons, but every time I have to see him it feels like work. :( For me, he doesn't really mentally drain me, so it is definitely harder for you. Do you have to meet him regularly? Perhaps you can say that you should just meet a few times in a year?
Wow, I'm surprised to see there's someone going to a similar situation (even tho I'm sorry, because I don't want this kind of thing to anyone). Yes, it's like working, feels like you are reading my mind.
Yep, every sunday (when I was little he used to come on saturdays too, but now he just comes on sundays). That's definitly a good idea, sounds better than cut everything out.
Thanks a lot for answering me and I wish things get better to both of us! ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Humm... I need help with family problems and I can't make na account on reddit for some reason.
My parents don't live with each other and I live with my mother, my stepfather and my sister (daoughter of my stepfather).
Every sunday, my dad comes to see me, but I don't want to see him anymore. He doesn't pay attention to me, makes fun of me in a mean way (my clothes, the fact in don't like sports and my love for romance novels are just somethings) and abuses mentally and verbally to the point I Always want to cry after I see him. He doesn't show love for me at all and makes my bipolar disorder even worse (I tryed to told him about my disorder, but he doesn't believe that disorder exist at all).
Well, I want to stop see him, but I don't know how to say it. He is my father, hurts to see him, but I don't wann hurt him. If I say the things I told you, he'll say that I'm too sensitive and he was joking. But doesn't look like it.
How do I say I don't want to see him anymore?
Probably no one is going to read this, but I'm feeling better after vent out a bit.