Don't punish him

Kaneki_is_life November 3, 2018 2:00 pm

I feel so bad for sangwoo he definitely has trauma. I think its safe to say from the look on his face after he called Bum mom, he regrets and is disgusted. I hope Bum handles this right and consoles his fragile heart and doesn't make him feel more disgusting than he already does. Im afraid it would break the poor guy if Bum reprimands him. He needs love and understanding if Bum wants him to change or get better.

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    Natsumi_ November 3, 2018 2:33 pm

    After all Sangwoo was so kind and gentle when Bum told him about his rape by the hands of the Uncle! Sangwoo consoled him and told him he didn't deserve it while hugging and kissing.

    Ezxf November 3, 2018 3:51 pm
    After all Sangwoo was so kind and gentle when Bum told him about his rape by the hands of the Uncle! Sangwoo consoled him and told him he didn't deserve it while hugging and kissing. Natsumi_

    Sangwoo is also a murderous psychopath. Yes, his pass obviously traumatized him but that doesn't excuse any of his actions. Don't try to romantify him. He needs psychiatric help, not love.

    Sebs1997 November 3, 2018 4:23 pm
    Sangwoo is also a murderous psychopath. Yes, his pass obviously traumatized him but that doesn't excuse any of his actions. Don't try to romantify him. He needs psychiatric help, not love. Ezxf

    I know I thought exactly like you when I started reading this manhwa I would get so angry when I read those people who ship them in the beginning, romanticizing the abuse, murder, the wounds, etc. But now after this last chapters that we know the true I can't help but sympathize with him, I mean yes he does need psychiatric help but all of his actions were consequence of his fucking mother I can't blame him for those murders I mean that was all of his mother doing, Sangwoo's life would've been so different if it wasn't for her. I feel so bad for him. It's not okay tho but i'll like them to start living like normal people to start a new life without all of those murders and traumas

    Natsumi_ November 3, 2018 4:53 pm
    Sangwoo is also a murderous psychopath. Yes, his pass obviously traumatized him but that doesn't excuse any of his actions. Don't try to romantify him. He needs psychiatric help, not love. Ezxf

    I was sarcastic, I hate Sangwoo and I'm sincerely bothered by all the justifications he's getting just because he suffered :P tbh even though i think he didn't deserve the abuse (obviously), I can't feel pity for him. He tortured (maybe) raped and killed innocent girls, and the same he did for Bum. I was joking because OP is afraid the "poor guy" will break up if Bum doesn't understand him, but the "poor guy" was the reason Bum attempted suicide in chapter 26.

    Lily November 3, 2018 8:52 pm
    I was sarcastic, I hate Sangwoo and I'm sincerely bothered by all the justifications he's getting just because he suffered :P tbh even though i think he didn't deserve the abuse (obviously), I can't feel pity f... Natsumi_

    If you can't understand why SW reacted tat way when Bum told about his uncle I really wonder what you read this story for

    Natsumi_ November 3, 2018 11:41 pm
    If you can't understand why SW reacted tat way when Bum told about his uncle I really wonder what you read this story for Lily

    I understand it, he was projecting himself. This doesn't mean I justify him for it. It was cruel and Bum didn't deserve it, especially because he has been forced to tell his abuse he was deeply ashamed of.

    Kaneki_is_life November 3, 2018 11:58 pm

    Of course Sangwoo is a pysopathic murderer who mistreated Bum, but don't just write Bum off as a victim, he's murdered and helped cover Sangwoos up too. But with the latest chapters explaining what made Sangwoo a serial killer one can't help but sympathize, when i say i want bum to treat his out burst with kindness, i want him to because a harsh reaction to his trauma will most likely send him in a murderous rage. He's already been abused enough, he needs help but that requires the right treatment.

    Natsumi_ November 4, 2018 12:35 am
    Of course Sangwoo is a pysopathic murderer who mistreated Bum, but don't just write Bum off as a victim, he's murdered and helped cover Sangwoos up too. But with the latest chapters explaining what made Sangwoo... Kaneki_is_life

    I'm sure Bum will understand Sangwoo, unless Koogi wants to make him out of character.
    And yes Bum killed and covered Sangwoo up, but who forced him in that situation? Also, Bum covering him up means he's grateful of the good things sangwoo did for him. Maybe it's just his mental illness, but he easily forgives Sangwoo even though he raped, humiliated and tortured him so i think he will comfort him if Sangwoo tells him the truth.

    Lily November 5, 2018 12:23 am
    I understand it, he was projecting himself. This doesn't mean I justify him for it. It was cruel and Bum didn't deserve it, especially because he has been forced to tell his abuse he was deeply ashamed of. Natsumi_

    Nobody deserved any of all this...Bum, SW, all the victims.. It's just that everybody has a different way to manage a trauma and Bum and SW are the opposite in that