Y’all are surprisingly pro-Hyesung and anti-Dojin but I’m just not...understanding Hye...

Kmsing October 31, 2018 3:43 am

Y’all are surprisingly pro-Hyesung and anti-Dojin but I’m just not...understanding Hyesung’s motives. I fully understand that he’s a victim of emotional abuse. However, the reasoning behind why he’s acting in such a way is a bit unclear and, to me, it isn’t outright stated. What exactly is the conflict? Does he feel like he doesn’t deserve a good relationship? Does he hate how he was born? Or does he simply not want to deal with a child? As a character, he’s irritating, to say the very least. His motives are unclear. It’s almost as if the author can’t decide what they want the main conflict to be. Whatever his motives are, it’s still not an excuse for the way he treats others.

Although Dojin, who’s apologized and shown remorse for what he did multiple times, is willing to try and make their relationship work (though Dojin is in no way innocent), Hyesung just keeps running in circles. It’s almost as if, throughout the series, he hasn’t changed at all, and the author is purposefully writing him in such a way so that they can create more unnecessary drama. He’s put himself in another sexual situation where he can easily be taken advantage of, not even thinking twice about his child. Recovery is a two way street and if Hyesung is not willing to try and better himself, then he’ll never improve. Once again, I’m fully aware that he’s a victim of abuse.

At this point, I’m hoping that they’ll just split. Simple as that. Dojin learns to move on and raise Byul with the help of Heesoo, while Hyesung does whatever. While parenting can be taught, it’s obvious that Hyesung is not ready to be a parent at all and their relationship is toxic. Of course, that’s probably not gonna happen since they’re bonded and will likely link up again.

Responses
    Takucchi October 31, 2018 3:55 am

    THIS. I FEEL SO MUCH.

    (╯°Д °)╯♡

    Anonymous October 31, 2018 4:05 am

    They're both running circles, not only omega. In previous chapter alpha could have talked to him, but, no, he just decided to fuck a recovering person. Alpha is not moving forward, he's just the same as well as omega. It seems to me the author just doesn't know how to develop characters and relationships without sex or doesn't want to.

    Stell October 31, 2018 4:11 am

    To answer some of your questions but this is base on what I understand on the story.
    1st, about the conflict. The conflict is within Hyesungs, he hate how he was born as an omega, because on the early chapters, the test said that he was an alpha, but when he met Dojin, he sudenly became an omega thats why theres a part on his heart that hates dojin because he believes that it was Dojin foult even though its not.
    2nd, i really dont know about the relationship but i feel that because he hate Dojin, he doesnt want to have a relationship with him though im not very sure with this.
    3rd, yes, he hate how he was born as an omega, because his father sold his mother to his friends because she was an omega and he believe that when his father knew that he turned into omega just like his mom, he will also suffer just like his mom.
    Lastly, Hyesung doesnt want a baby. On the early chapter, he wanted to abort the baby but because of Dojin, it backfired and as the story goes on, he develop a feelings for the baby but he himself doesnt realise it and keep denying it. And i think the way how his dad treat him when he was still a kid have a deep scar in his heart that it also affect how he thinks about the baby.


    But honestly, i also doesnt like how hyesungs character develop in this story. It feels like he is still a child, well i knew that he have some past.

    I just hope that if ever they will be together, hyesung learn to grow up, and become a better parent and partner of dojin.

    P.S: This is the longest comment i ever written lol

    youraedthiswrogn October 31, 2018 12:45 pm

    Omfg, THIS^. This is everything i feel to a T. I have people being like "well why do you dislike him? He's a victim" and i'm like "well why does him being a victim justify his behavior?". I've had condescending ass SJW types implying i don't understand Hyesung's situation, i understand it entirely, my opinion is an informed one. Despite Hyesung's past, his actions and attitude aren't justified.

    onlyY October 31, 2018 1:04 pm

    " i also doesnt like how hyesungs character develop in this story"
    Maybe that the whole point. The author doesnt want to change that. in real life there are people who are just ends up broken without repair. Struggling and fighting all their life without a happy ending.
    I hope it doesnt come to that but it feels like it right now.

    Rinsama_ October 31, 2018 1:08 pm

    ^^^^ totally agree. Not all people can be a rational human being who can overcome their trauma. This is certainly not an excuse, but it's nice to at least understand them.