idc about the seme sleeping around

Sex friends is different from a relationship. Didn't y'all learn from all those sexual liberation movements? It isn't that hard to fuck somebody. Srsly, you can't truly think that a person should "save themselves for their lover uwu"... So many people sleep together for fun, for sexual release, etc. You read yaoi with rape, jealousy, borderline manipulation. It is a bit too late to try and pull up the virtuous argument of yours.

What I have a problem with, tho, is everything else. The uke feels meek and tries to match up to the seme all the time, right? Irl, this would def turn into an unhealthy relationship. The guy would selfishly impose himself over his lover, not caring for what he has to say. He would be gentle with him at times, which would confuse the uke and make it even harder to leave, but then he would also force him to do so many things and drag him into many different stuff. The uke wouldn't really have much of an opinion.