His mother is more abuse , than his father. My family was like that, my father was furious all time, my mom just abuse us in psychological way, always want to to protect her (even small kids), manipulate us and try always be victim even, when she has hand in abusing us. After all this time i can say that my mom behavior harm me and my sibling much more than behavior my father.
Absolutely understand.. Emotional abuse and playing the victim is vicious...
And no child is able to fight against parents who act hurt...
He was foaming from the mouth though, which makes me think his dad actually did eat some of the poison and was either taken over by rage when he realized what he'd eaten or was taken over by hallucinations or delirium when the poison kicked in.
Didn't the root was your father? I think you just saw, what was on the stage, not the hand behind the curtain?
They are both. My father were abusive, but my mom join to him and then play victim. She s neurologist, she has possible to go away, but prefer stay and join to abusive their children during saying how much she loves us and then playing victim. It s sick when 5-6 old kid try to comfort own mother and try to be support for their mother, consolation for her. That s interferes kids much more, cause they can t protect adult, they don t have mean to do that. They still love their parents and try the best to help them, but that s too much for them and cant grow in healthy way. My father doesnt use physical abuse towards my mom, only towards kid (us). Always were quarrellings, but still my mom try to be victim and force small kids to be someone, who they couldn t be.
If u never be in abusive family u don t know how it is. I blame my father 19 years old, always try to be support for my mom, crying when she cry to me or even when i want to go on trip with my siblings i stay with her at home ( i was 6 years), cause i don t want to leave her alone. I was thinking how to help her, but i can t do this in that time, i was child. One day, when i back with my mom and she start crying about something stupid, i said or done. She want to me to feel guilty and comfort her. I understood then, that she was manipulating me a long time. When i was kid everything was around her and how she s miserable, u can t have own problem u can t say anything about yourself cause everything must focus on her. When u are child u love your parents no matter what they do and try to help them. But it s really abusive, cause in this way, child can t be himself, don t have place on child feelings , emotions and to grow up in healthy way. That is more abusive towards child, that physic violence, cause u can hate your father for doing that, blame him, but playing victim and hurting parent and force child to sacrifice them self for your comfort is not fair, cause it s take away from kids their own life. I undersood that when i became adult, that my mom was hurting us much moer, cause she force us to be mirror for her feelings and needs, not ourself. Yous post make me angry, cause it s little ignorant, when u don t experience it in your life. It s not supression,i blame only my father 20 years for this, but i was wrong, my mother also abusive us to fulfill her own needs. They just othfucked up, that why i t
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It looks like Sangwoo's dad was being poisoned by the same rat poison Bum tried to use in the begining of the series. The pills were all scattered on the floor when Sangwoo came in the room as his mom was getting beaten by his dad. Sangwoo tried to help her but his dad ended hitting his head on the table. I'm starting to think that her secret was that she was trying to kill her husband.