No one is really excusing it. Your past doesn’t excuse your current actions, but it does explain it to help others better understand you.
i can't tell you how many "aww but poor baby alex!" comments I've had to read
It is still hard to understand Jiwon though. Yeah so he was heartbroken. He needs to grow the fuck up. That guy was obviously a tool and Jiwon could have learned from the experience instead of turning into someone just as despicable as his ex. Its like dont treat others like trash if you already know what it feels like to be treated like trash too. Its not rocket science.
HAVING. A. SAD. PAST. DOES. NOT. EXCUSE. YOUR. DOUCHEY. ASS. BEHAVIOR.
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