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i realized i was a lesbian when i didnt want be LIKE those girls but i wanted to be WITH girls romantically. i told my mom and left the house for a couple hours and she then had a chat that she didnt approve or believe i could know my sexuality so young (16) but now shes come to accept it a bit more and even points out cute girls for me lol

hope that helps, good luck with figuring yourself out ! <3

i love the part that your mom points out cute girls <3 it's cute.

i do wonder what will my family and friends think.. because non of them are like homophobic or sexist..

also I'm not that attracted to girls but this one girl I think i have feelings.. i do need to figure out myself. thanks for sharing your story..

Currently 16, bisexual female. Haven't come out of the closet yet, nor am I planning to unless the person I want to marry in future turns out to be a female...... (from a Catholic family)

I think my mom knows im Bi without me telling her xD Or she just thinks im lesbean. Fine by me


But anyway- i have this friend, and she brought in some sour gummy worms, and she, or my other friend, thought it would be a good Idea to do a Pocky challege with them, I was down cause it was candy, but those gummy worms were mini sized XD So if anyone looked from behind us, it would seem as we were kissing, but we weren't. But my momma pulled up behind me so OOOF


And then I realized I'm bi because because of my friend and little thing that happened when I was younger ヾ(☆▽☆)

Batting a bit more to the girl side though. Oh but I never actually fell in love with a girl,(SToP fUcKinG lYInG I KNoW yOu WaNtEd To dAte Ya FrIEnD)

ANYWAYYY


I did have some....rEalLy CuTe AnD pUrE fAnAiZeS, like marrying my BFF, and having a happy family together. xD

I’m bi my good friends know I’m bi too and a few others probably
I don’t care about “coming out” though

Oh but my sister and cousin know- they’re the only family who knows and they accepted me right off the bat.

Mostly bc my cousin is a lesbian and my sister and I are very close

Oooh mmh So ... I'm bi (and I'm not English so sorry for the faults)

I did not know it overnight, it happened naturally

(It may be stupid to say that, but the BLs helped me a bit, I explain, when I entered high school, I discovered yaoi, I really liked ^^. I noticed something: when characters said "no no he's beautiful but I'm not attracted" or many other things of denial, well I realized that I thought the same, and I also realized that the way I looked at a man was ultimately similar to the one I was looking at a woman, so... I understood.)

I wanted to said that to my mother in first. I know she's not homophobic but in my head it was "You like girls? Bullshit you're too Young (I was almost 16 yo) how can you know this ? And you've never had a boyfriend..."

And the evening I saw an horrible video "If I was gay in the world" (in french) and I saw the executions, the torture, la prison in countries if people are homosexual.
I am not directly concerned but I found it terrible and I had a ball in the belly

My mother was in the bathroom for laundry and I told her
(in a humorous tone)
-Good news a Russian scientist has found a cure for homosexuality
(And she answered, always with a sense of humor)
-Oh awesome, we needed it, what genius

-In fact ... I have something to tell you ...
I had a huge ball in my belly, I was sweating, I was stressed I was very scared.
She raised her head, looked at me and directly said:

-That you liked girls too? Oh don't worry I m your mother I know everything. but you know that I don't care and I Love you ?

I was stunned. I remained wide-mouthed because of the surprise for 10 minutes. And finnaly I went to her room, we made a big big hug and we discussed a lot of things both.

About two years later, I am very well, I am very comfortable in life.
And my mother is very happy for me in what I do.
I'm lucky because we really have an accomplice relationship both. So I can tell her everything without problem. ^^


I hope it can help you, good luck and you know, no need to be in a hurry and any suite know your own attractions.
Just wait and see how your life is going.ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

actually my family already thinks I'm lesbian too even though back then i don't have feelings for this girl.

you're such a cutie with the marrying thing <3

i'm close with my sister too but i think it's still too early to her about these feelings i have about a girl

thank you for sharing your story :D, (my english is not that good either, don't worry)

i ship too many male to male to be honest hehe, same, i'm aware of things mostly because of bl mangas and webtoons (even though there are unrealistic expectation hehe). but don't worry it's not stupid.

wow! your mother is cool! and has good humor ヾ(☆▽☆)

thank you for the advice, i'll just go with the flow of life, i just panicked and needed advice because i want to hear peoples story and it's the first time i felt something for a girl. again thank you

i hope religion won't stop you from doing what you want.

from a catholic family (but never practice any religious things) and attended catholic school until i graduated hehe.

I am also from a catholic school. I do go out on dates with both genders, but in secret. So it's ok for now and I have completely figured myself out. But I am worried about future. My parents are loving and great, their religious faith is just too strong. Although they are clearly against homosexuality, they never badmouth the LGBTQ+. (At most, they just say "Just what is happening in the world these days" or that they simply can't understand) I kinda feel like I would just hurt them if I say the truth. Honestly, now I think that I would rather give up on love and marry whoever they choose in future instead of making them disappointed.
This is really confusing!