EXACTLY THANK YOU
so jisuh is the one who is doing the breaking, not the other way around?..all right then...just differences in opinion
I see your point but I never said what Heejae was right but when he realized what he was doing was wrong and was hurting jisuh he told him and was changing for him jisuh also manipulated him but even worse (in my opinion) if he really didn't want Heejae he could of left but no he wanted to hurt him and his career hes just as bad if not worse
i think my issue is not with what you said so much as how you said it. you call what heejae did a mistake while also implying that jisuh is destroying heejaes life. jisuh is the victim and heejae feeling regret doesn't make him the victim now. Heejae did not make a mistake, he /actively/ plotted to ruin jisuhs life and he has stated that hes done that to other people in the past, he treats people feelings like they are a game and just because he happened to fall in love with one of his toys doesn't make what he did just a mistake. it is much more than that, heejae didn't regret what he did because he knows how cruel he can be, he regretted it because it was jisuh specifically, someone he ended up catching feelings for. if it weren't jisuh and it were another man or woman he decided to play with, he probably would have gone on and manipulated some more until he got bored and then proceed to break their heart. heejae has ruined other 'lovers' lives, jisuh isn't the first. and he knew that jisuh was already in an abusive relationship and instead of deciding to find someone else, he used jisuhs suffering like an advantage to gain power of him
I can agree with that I don't believe he's a great person he's got some real issues everything he did is wrong for a number of reasons that's why I understand why people don't want them together(personally I do but that's just how I feel) but when jisuh figured this out and decided to do the same thing how does that make it right and if it was so wrong why is he not mad at sunyool he helped he knew he helped but is ok with him if he was really that mad wouldn't he be mad at everyone involved? That's why I think it was mostly to do with he was manuplaited by two lovers that he did this but I understand that Heejae is no better and deserved it but if he was really mad he should also be mad at sunyool and should have just left
Ohhh..so he's your typical asshole??..Hahaha..sorry I haven't read this one yet..but all the comments are so interesting..yours in particular coz you described the characters (seme) personality more in depth..and I gotta say..he is a cruel asshole from your description.
how did Jisuh manipulate him (and even worse in your opinion)? How I read it his plan actually failed since Heejae knew all along that something was off and Jisuh didn't quite get his long awaited revenge. He just ended it (but you can't call that manipulative).
And forgiving is maybe easy but trusting again is so difficult. You can only understand that tho if you have been in the same situation. Some people just can never forget what their partners did even if they want to it keeps spooking in their minds.
That may be a bit random but this video just conveys it so good, even if you still have feelings for a person to trust again is sometimes real difficult (its about cheating tho, but the message is the same)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GigalsgJ4G4&list=LLK0p35DfziDh19QtxpEh4QQ&index=51
Yeah you did it you ended great...do you feel better now.?.. is that voice in the back of your head telling you to that you don't want him gone...or is it just saying something different...do you feel better destroying someone wether you like or not you love? I really don't understand why everyone wants this to happen honestly I believe it's projection someone screwed you over and you want revenge but you didn't do it so now this manga helps you live that out it's dumb everyone makes mistakes and you can clearly see he's trying to be better for jisuh I'm not saying he should have just forgave Heejae but breaking someone like this is wrong and you don't even feel better I understand when you have a lover and an ex lover that was manipulative you want payback but when someone really really loves you and you know deep down you want to stay and you see him charging for you...stay and see if it works if not then leave be better be happy...