I have some fucked up fetishes and one or two even include inflicting pain on others. Though, I don't think I would be happy or satisfied if they didn't enjoy it as much as I do. However, when it comes to animals, I'd go ballistic and homocidal if I saw someone hurting them intentionally. I'm a former vet tech and even when I had to give injections or place IV catheters, I would feel like a brute for hurting an animal even a little. So, puppy and kitten stomping can be added to the short list of fetishes I won't participate in. Piss, shit, even vomit are no problem but, hurting a little fur baby is definitely a no go. @DigitalCtrls is right, injuring or killing small animals is one of the red flags for a serial killer. People like that need serious and long term professional help.
You're an amazing person! I'm also an S but only with consent If i saw violence against someone who wasn't consenting or towards animal or child would lose it with rage.
An ex of mine had a pee and food fetish. Foot didn't bother me but when hd asked go listen to me pee it felt awkward....
I feel people who do torture or violence for thrill to animals or people who aren't willing are mentally ill and are already likely a sociopath on the way to serial killer
I'll never forget the time my youngest son spilled kool-aid on the kitchen table. It was nothing more than an accident, but inside my head I went ape-shit, like imagining myself beating him. Although I didn't act on it, I didn't even yell and I didn't lay a finger on him, it still scared the living hell out of me. I went the next day for mental health counseling. I never get upset over silly accidents like that any more. My grandson spilled tea on the carpet the other day and he had this look like he was expecting to be yelled at. I just laughed and asked him if he wanted me to yell at him. He said no and then I asked, if I yelled would that make the tea be unspilled. He's only 5, so I doubt he understood what I meant, but it made me feel good when he hugged me and said he was sorry. A simple counseling session nearly 20 years ago helped my grandson and me get closer. Counseling can really have an impact if you want it to.
I wouldn't say I'm a big fan of excretion fetishes, but they don't freak me out. I have a fetish for pregnant women and being pregnant myself. I've had it since I was 6 or 7 years old and I have no idea where it came from or why it turns me on so much. I'm 48 and have had three children and I still have no clue. Fetishes are like falling in love. You can't pick them, you can't stop them and if asked why you have them, finding a reason in hard. So, I try not to judge anyone for their fetishes, but I draw the line at hurting others or other living things. There is no excuse for that. I can even understand pedophilia, but pedophiles know the damage that is caused by acting on their fantasies. So, in that aspect, I find them repugnant. As long as they don't act or their fantasies or if they act out their fantasies with a consenting adult dressed up like a child, I'm cool with it. It's just plain wrong to hurt kids or animals.
I agree and add that the women who encourage this and do that to animals could use a bit of help too. I know what it is like to engage in a fetish for the sake of someone else and you still have to find some appeal in the fetish. Otherwise, it won't be as much of a turn on for the other person. So, being able to "suck it up" and kill an innocent animal takes as much of a twisted mind as finding the death of an animal arousing.
About this crushing fetish, I heard there're also minor versions of it which I consider are okay, such as stepping on insects, like cockroaches. Though I really can't understand what's hot in that... Heels are hot tho. But being surrounded by insects is closer like a fear of mine rather than a turn-on.
Oh yes, I dig high heels. They are a turn on for sure. Whether on me or on another woman... or the right man. As for bugs, I think it is fascinating that we can be okay with killing a cockroach, but killing a kitten or puppy is repulsive since they are technically both living things. Don't get me wrong though, I am the first to smash a big ol' hairy spider or a cockroach if I see them. I just think it is interesting how we justify one but not the other. I guess I'm easily fascinated. LOL
Absolutely anything you do with the sole purpose of causing yourself, or another, sexual arousal is a fetish by definition. That can be anything from eating toast to gouging out eyeballs. If it turns you on and you do it consistently to get turned on, it is a fetish. Granted, killing small animals, or gouging out eyeballs, is definitely psychopathic behaviour, even as a fetish. No one said they were mutually exclusive.
Oh honey it's not disgusting getting turned on by a tear. There's even more disgusting thing than a tear fetish, such as stepping on animals (aka puppies and kitties) with heels fetish. (that's a fact actually. And it disgust me). Anyways good read.