Be strong okay x Find love either from others or yourself and your heart will be warmed up again. I'd been through a lot, but I knew it's worth it once I've found my pansexual counterpart. Though, my parents accept me well enough, they just don't get why can't I marry a normal man. Some people from the old world just don't understand these things enough and make judgement based on what they think they know best and feel secure with most (hellyeah, some parents are just too old-fashion, high with prejudice, haven't got educated enough from their school time back in the old days, and don't even try to understand any new things),,
yeah that's true...yet sometimes parents think like they invest on their children's future that's why the kids should just follow the path the parents think was appropriate for them to get the profit they ventured for so many years.
My dad told me frequently that he had me so that he could "use" me. So, yeah, from very young age I gotta do almost everything in the house to serve him. So, it's just so right to leave his side as soon as I could and we still don't talk much. Luckily, he didn't invest in me financially that much (mom did it mostly), so I'm kinda free...(except I still have to pay mom back with money and flavour (￣∇￣"))
when i had the same talk with my parents and i told my dad almost the same thing yuyang said to his father. Then he told me he's going to stop supporting me financially if i wont stop doing what i'm doing... (he never was interested of what i want to do) i was angry and impulsive so i said " hell yeah! i can support myself " and left home. It's hard to have a parents like that. It made me strong though and cold... ╥﹏╥