I agree with you but I don't agree with you! (⊙…⊙ ) how did it come to this? Wow, there is just too much to say and I can't find the words, so basically it all turned to feelings in my heart than words in my mind, and that is "I feel" no one shouldn't be away from their child.
I feel no one shouldn't be away from their child if they don't want to. But sometimes, both for the child's sake and the biological parent's sake, it's better to be away. Being connected by blood to someone doesn't make them your family. You need more than that. But maybe I'm able to think like that because I witnessed many abusive parents/children relationships through my mom's job and also seen many family not related by blood that were very happy together.
Yeah, that's exactly the part I agreed with you on, love is what makes people connected with each other. I am just sad that although some of these connections were made from the strat (as default or you can say blood), it's bond to be broken. And it's just so sad, cause it's a great opportunity for a lifetime and then it slips away just like that. Still, there is hope for those who wants that connection and those who deserve it.
well for some people love isn't enough too you know. Some people need to have their life in order and feel stable before feeling ready to be parents for example. If you're a mess, you might love your child and still want to stay away from them for their sake because you feel you won't be good for them (this being true or not is another debate.) There's also case of parents exploiting their child, or locking them up and slowly cutting them from the rest of the world (I've met family like that). Those abusive parents no doubt love their child, yet they're toxic for them.
Yes, i can blame him for abandoning his child... What? He chose to have it, the "contract" (not legally binding) was a cop-out for him to make money and not have to take responsibility. This isn't surrogacy, it's his baby.
I see you don't really understand the meaning of a contract then huh. Not every contract have to be legally binding by the way, this one is a contract between two people who trust each other. And yes, exactly, it's his baby, so he does wtf he wants with it.
woh I can't fucking believe some people. Yeah Hyesung is selfish and acting like a child most of the time, yeah money is important for him and since he got "lucky" he does his best to live a confortable life. Now can you really fucking blame him for that because I'm pretty sure (almost)everyone on this website is sometime selfish and want to live confortable in luxury.
And for those who say Hyesung should take responsibility because he choose to keep the baby I think they tend to forget than 1) At first Hyesung wanted to abort 2) choose to keep the baby for DOJIN's sake because HE said he would care for the baby and Hyesung would have nothing to do (so of course Dojin did everything until now. I mean, dude. That was their agreement) And yes he asked money for it, which is discutable and up to debate, but it's his choice and honestly there's more than just selfishness here because personally I wouldn't keep a baby I don't want even for all the money in the world. You have to be very brave and generous to give birth to a baby you don't want and very trusting of the person you're giving your baby to (in case like that when you're keeping the baby because of someone else's wish)
Basically they had a f*cking agreement and Hyesung did his part. He has no responsibility to take and I also want to point out that it's pretty different from what his mother did because Hyesung made sure the baby will be loved and happy during his life. Of course, there's no guarantee, but he trust Dojin, can you really blame him for that? (and for his mother, honestly what she did was selfish but she's also a victim. Don't forget that.)
Dojin is a sweet man and I love that dude and he will be a wonderful father but it's his own fault for getting his hopes up and getting selfish over wanting more with Hyesung (without even having the balls to discuss it with him and tell him how he felt).
Sorry for the rant but it needed to get out (now we will get our happy ending anyway so everyone calm your tits)