The ones actually blaming the uke -yet again- are just as disgusting as the people spreading rumours about him. When you're desperate you are even more vulnerable to pieces of shit like that professor. He knows what he's doing. His student is accused of selling himself (EVERYONE thinks that even if he's not), so in case he wanted to report the abuse (he won't because korea is an homophobic country, and that would bite him in the ass, being gay and looked down upon for that reason, even if it sucks and even if it shouldn't happen, IT DOES) he has more chances of being believed than the uke, because he is seen as "respectable" (ugh, I hope he dies) and the student is being suspected of whoring himself out.
You're gonna blame him for not thinking it through? In case you didn't notice he was crying, hating the abuse yet again, and actually thinking that it happened because of him (And IT'S NOT, HE WAS RAPED, in case you forgot). I'm fucking tired of victim blaming assholes that just don't want to understand how hard it is for victims, not only to forget, but to learn to forgive themselves (even if it isn't our fault, the feelings of being dirty, of not being strong enough to stop it are still there). It's YOUR fault that they (we) feel that way for longer than it should. Agh. Seriously, I can't deal with assholes that don't even know what empathy means
The ones actually blaming the uke -yet again- are just as disgusting as the people spreading rumours about him. When you're desperate you are even more vulnerable to pieces of shit like that professor. He knows what he's doing. His student is accused of selling himself (EVERYONE thinks that even if he's not), so in case he wanted to report the abuse (he won't because korea is an homophobic country, and that would bite him in the ass, being gay and looked down upon for that reason, even if it sucks and even if it shouldn't happen, IT DOES) he has more chances of being believed than the uke, because he is seen as "respectable" (ugh, I hope he dies) and the student is being suspected of whoring himself out.
You're gonna blame him for not thinking it through? In case you didn't notice he was crying, hating the abuse yet again, and actually thinking that it happened because of him (And IT'S NOT, HE WAS RAPED, in case you forgot). I'm fucking tired of victim blaming assholes that just don't want to understand how hard it is for victims, not only to forget, but to learn to forgive themselves (even if it isn't our fault, the feelings of being dirty, of not being strong enough to stop it are still there). It's YOUR fault that they (we) feel that way for longer than it should. Agh. Seriously, I can't deal with assholes that don't even know what empathy means