True. But still...depending on how long they were in an "official serious" relationship. It's clear dropping that big bomb of, 'hey let's move across the ocean away from everyone and everything you're familiar with to start new" while some think that's an amazing opportunity others would be terrified and not so keen to the idea. Although you're right about jungyoug's current attitude, he gives off the air of showing off (or trying to make a point?) It does come off as childish. But I'm sure in his head he's thinking, "I have to make sure shilhoon knows that I'm over his ghosting shit, that we can't get back together as easy as before," or something. Just another opinion. But really both sides are to blame. ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
you snapped
You have valid points too. I was meant to put in that they was "both to blame " as i did in a previous post (but got i disturbed.... then i forgot, can't get five minutes to myself lol)
Why........?
I'm actually calm lol
I like the way you analyzed all this thing and gave yourself the time to think about it on a different perspective.
Lol no its cool. I'm not even disagreeing with your pov because, it's true. And at least we can all agree that it's both their faults.
Thank's
Thanks. We can agree on that. (There's so many people arguing on here these days, you just don't know what's going... to come next?) Lol
I don't blame Shihoon for not getting in touch.
Looking back at the whole thing..... Shihoon said, "He wanted to take they're relationship to the next level and wanted Jungyoug to go with him" Jungyoung Ignored him completely and said " That's good, While your in America i can do my military service" Shihoon said "do you not know what i'm saying, I want things to get serious and plan they're future together." Jungyoug said "he as his own plans and can't waste two years of his life" (That would hurt anyone) Shihoon really thought about their future and Jugyoug called it "waste ". Jungyoug say's "what if i were to go, what would i do?" Shilhoon said "You could gain new life experiences or you could think about studying" (I'm thinking damn i wish i had a chance to go to American to study and gain experience.) Shihoon goes on to say, Jungyoug not trusting him and having no intention of agreeing with his decisions. (It seamed like, Shihoon was trying to get some reassurance from Jungyoug, Something like? i do trust you! But, I've been thinking about our future too, I think i should get my military training done out of the way. Instead he said "he's trying to be sensible about his future... "HIS FUTURE" and called wasting two years on Shihoon (I'd be upset too) He also went on to say "Shihoon saw him has a plaything and an accessory" (He's trying to be serious and gets attacked personally by Jungyoug.) Shihoon then asks " Is this what you think of the way i treat you? Jungyoug then said "can you tell me it's not?". Shihoon is so shocked and hurt he couldn't bring himself to answer. Instead Shihoon said "if this is what we actually think of each other... Then i have to wonder... what's the point of us being together?"
Jungyoug didn't say a thing, he let him walk!
I know Jungyoug must of been a little shocked.... to be ask to go to America? But, he could of given Shihoon something. All he wanted was to look after Jungyoug. Shihoon was upset by the way Jungyoug saw their relationship... it's know wonder he left and didn't get in touch. (Jungyoug said... "he would of gone anywhere with him" why didn't he tell him that.)
Jungyoug only took Shilhoon back to his place to brag and show off, that the coat means nothing to him even throwing it down.... saying he don't throw anything's away (I don't think he's grown up at all. He even asked his friend if he wanted to sleep with him again... poor guy.
Thought I'd EDIT my post a little;
It kind of, comes around... i'm against Jungyoug (I'm not, I'm actually rooting for both of them, i want them to sort thing's out.) I just tried to look at things... from an outsiders point of veiw (I write something like this... when I've got time too lol.)
I did however forget to put in my post... That i thought both of them are to blame, for not being in touch for four years. Shihoon didn't contact him... he was most likely sulking (even though he knows they have communication problems.) Jungyoug was busy being stubborn (well both of them are stubborn. lol)
This is just my opinion, i'm sure you have your own. (Any comments, I'll try my best to respond.)