Sexuality

Froggy July 16, 2018 8:50 pm

I'm curious how did you guys find out about your sexuality? Technically I consider myself as a pansexual (I get turned on both by males and females) but I've never slept with woman so I'm probably a homosexual (???) . I found out I was okay with boys when I watched porn for first time and I wasn't "disgusted" by male body. Then 4 months later my brother's friend wanted to teach me how to kiss and in that moment I realized that I was even more than okay with boys ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

Responses
    McNoodles July 16, 2018 8:58 pm

    That's bisexual

    love is love July 16, 2018 8:59 pm

    don't you mean you are bisexual rather than pansexual? if I'm not mistaken pansexual is when you just don't care about the gender of the person you are with but rather his personality

    N a N a July 16, 2018 9:02 pm

    You're bisexual honey

    ermar July 16, 2018 9:03 pm

    i havent figured it out yet. im currently dating a guy but i've dated a girl before. for me its more like guys>>girls but i dont know.

    Froggy July 16, 2018 9:06 pm

    I can be bisexual then. Sorry for mistake, though it was the same thing with cooler name ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Amorim July 16, 2018 9:29 pm
    I can be bisexual then. Sorry for mistake, though it was the same thing with cooler name ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ Froggy

    Hahahaha that's an awesome misunderstanding

    Apollo July 16, 2018 9:39 pm

    I don’t really know the difference between pansexual and bisexual but your probably one or the other.
    I found out I was bisexual when I realized I watched porn and mainly focused on the girls ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

    GoldenScale July 16, 2018 9:44 pm
    I don’t really know the difference between pansexual and bisexual but your probably one or the other.I found out I was bisexual when I realized I watched porn and mainly focused on the girls ┑( ̄Д  ̄)�... Apollo

    I think pansexual doesn't include sexual attraction and focus more on the feeling of love.

    a l l E u g i M July 16, 2018 9:45 pm
    I don’t really know the difference between pansexual and bisexual but your probably one or the other.I found out I was bisexual when I realized I watched porn and mainly focused on the girls ┑( ̄Д  ̄)�... Apollo

    I did that too but thats not how I found out my sexuality

    Apollo July 16, 2018 9:45 pm
    I think pansexual doesn't include sexual attraction and focus more on the feeling of love. GoldenScale

    Oh I didn’t know that, thanks for the info

    Froggy July 16, 2018 10:03 pm

    "The dictionary states the definition of bisexual as: “sexually attracted to both men and women”. Meanwhile, the definition of pansexual is: “not limited or inhibited in sexual choice with regard to gender or activity.” While it can be easy to say that both definitions mean the same, exact thing, the key difference between bisexuality and pansexuality rests on the focus on gender identity.
    Bisexuality implies that there are only two genders, that being male and female. Pansexuality, on the other hand, implies that there are more than two genders. Pansexuals have no problem dating or sleeping with a transgender person, for example. This also includes people who fall out of the gender binary and consider themselves genderqueer (people who do not identify as just man or woman)."
    ~ https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/thelifelgbt/2014/11/differences-between-bisexuality-and-pansexuality

    Well now I'm confused. I look at the gender as a spectrum and I think I would be down with having sex with transgender person. However, I think sexuality is the matter of biological sex, not a gender. Sooo what am I? I don't really care about terms but It would be nice to know just in case (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜
    Help me, I'm clueless ┗( T﹏T )┛

    Ps. sorry for my bad english

    Apollo July 16, 2018 10:14 pm
    "The dictionary states the definition of bisexual as: “sexually attracted to both men and women”. Meanwhile, the definition of pansexual is: “not limited or inhibited in sexual choice with regard to gende... Froggy

    Your English is fine! But I mean I’m bisexual and I’d date a transgender person....I don’t see how it isn’t the same thing either unless what goldenScale said was correct.

    But bisexual don’t always focus on sexual attraction, why do asexual bisexual exsist then?.... I don’t know.....I’m no help lmao

    Im going to stay with bisexual though

    Froggy July 16, 2018 10:25 pm
    Your English is fine! But I mean I’m bisexual and I’d date a transgender person....I don’t see how it isn’t the same thing either unless what goldenScale said was correct.But bisexual don’t always foc... Apollo

    I will stick to "I don't want to be single so I'm okay with everything" type of thinking :"""")

    SenBon July 16, 2018 10:28 pm
    "The dictionary states the definition of bisexual as: “sexually attracted to both men and women”. Meanwhile, the definition of pansexual is: “not limited or inhibited in sexual choice with regard to gende... Froggy

    Hi~ actually bisexual and pansexual are the same. Also, bisexual people would sleep with trans people too, since when mostly we say trans we assume we're talking about male or female (but there are also agender or enby people, which are trans too).
    Summary, bisexual and pansexual are the same. If you read the bisexual manifesto, it says "do not assume there are only two genders", and that manifesto is from 1990, if I'm not wrong ( http://binetusa.blogspot.com/2014/01/1990-bi-manifesto.html)
    Please don't take my words harshly because I was just saying this to inform.

    Izumi July 16, 2018 11:34 pm
    Hi~ actually bisexual and pansexual are the same. Also, bisexual people would sleep with trans people too, since when mostly we say trans we assume we're talking about male or female (but there are also agender... SenBon

    Bisexual and pansexual aren’t the same, bisexual is being attracted to two sexes or two genders, pan is attracted to any sex or gender. They are very similar but not quite the same

    Izumi July 16, 2018 11:36 pm
    don't you mean you are bisexual rather than pansexual? if I'm not mistaken pansexual is when you just don't care about the gender of the person you are with but rather his personality love is love

    Essentially, pansexual is liking any gender or sex, bi is liking two genders or sexes, so it could be liking people who are agender and cis women, or liking cis women and cis men, etc

    SenBon July 16, 2018 11:40 pm
    Bisexual and pansexual aren’t the same, bisexual is being attracted to two sexes or two genders, pan is attracted to any sex or gender. They are very similar but not quite the same Izumi

    At first pansexuality was created because bisexuality sounded like it was only about two genders, but it's not. Bisexuality and pansexuality are the same, since bisexuality says that there are not two genders only

    McNoodles July 17, 2018 7:39 pm

    I can understand your misconceptions. Pansexuality and bisexuality tend to be mixed up a lot, and yes the difference may not be that striking but it’s there!
    Pansexuals don’t care about gender or gender identity. To put it frankly: Pansexuals don’t fall in love with the gender but with the person. It’s nothing but a mere coincidence whatever gender their loved one may be. Bisexuals are turned on by gender and by persons, while pansexuals only are turned on by persons. And yes they be might be turned on by their female or male partner, but that’s not because of the fact that they are female or male, it is because they are that person that they are.
    Bisexuals can be attracted to people sorely based on what their gender are, pansexuals cannot.