I really hate it

Critic July 15, 2018 4:42 pm

Like supremely hate it when someone *tells* someone else what they're feeling. Don't just assume what someone else feels and then take it as fact without even letting them speak

Responses
    Vampire Queen July 15, 2018 7:32 pm

    I disagree. I think it's healthier to verbally make your views on your relationship clear to both you and your partner or intended. And it's not like anyone was stopping Kazushi from saying anything to the contrary.

    Critic July 15, 2018 8:46 pm
    I disagree. I think it's healthier to verbally make your views on your relationship clear to both you and your partner or intended. And it's not like anyone was stopping Kazushi from saying anything to the cont... Vampire Queen

    No see, that's fine. Conversation, sitting down and talking things out, that's peachy. He didn't give him a chance to speak, just said what he wanted (all assumptions) and then took off. That's what I find annoying.

    It's not a conversation if you're the only person talking. He had time to think of what he wanted to say and do but ran out without giving Kazushi so much as a moment to process, which is something people need kind of need to do in most cases.

    Vampire Queen July 15, 2018 9:02 pm
    No see, that's fine. Conversation, sitting down and talking things out, that's peachy. He didn't give him a chance to speak, just said what he wanted (all assumptions) and then took off. That's what I find anno... Critic

    I kind of saw things differently. Like Oda saying his peace and is giving Kazushi time to think things over, and yes he is assuming but can you really blame him because, even if he was a bit over emotional, Kazushi has not given him much to go on and has left their relationship ambiguous for way too long. So think about how Oda feels when the guy he likes and had a one-time thing with says no but his actions tell a different story. So yes it's irritating when the person ranting on has no basis but in this situation, it's understandable why. Kazushi himself is a coward he says so himself so maybe it's good that he gets a taste of Oda's reality to get him the courage he needs to voice his views.

    TheStardust July 15, 2018 11:02 pm
    I kind of saw things differently. Like Oda saying his peace and is giving Kazushi time to think things over, and yes he is assuming but can you really blame him because, even if he was a bit over emotional, Kaz... Vampire Queen

    Agrees, feels like Kazushi isn’t part of this relationship at all but some barely-involved bystander. -_-