Um the ex shouldn't be trying to ruin yet another relationship just because he was an abusive a-hole the first time around and that lead them to breaking up the first time. By your 'logic' if an abuse victim leaves a relationship and gets with someone else and the person seems more decent but actually turned out to be an even bigger a-hole (because that's what manipulative abusers DO, sweetcheeks), it would be the victim's fault for trusting him. Heaven FORBID the abuser accept any responsibility. And it's people like YOU who wonder why victims stay with their abusers. Hypocrisy.
I don’t understand what you are trying to say? I’m not saying the ex isn’t wrong here! He is an asshole who I would like to punch, however I’m saying it’s not all him, forget about him for a moment, he needs to be ignored and straight up shut down. If you want to carry your trauma’s with you forever that’s on you. I’m saying if something is bothering you talk to your partner about it and voice your concerns it isn’t fair for him to be put through this because you had a bad experience. So he hasn’t learnt from his past relationship or grown as a person at all. Sabotage a new relationship because of one bad one? I’m saying he is weak, and needs to grow emotionally sorry if that’s too harsh for you but others can only do so much to heal your own wounds. If he wasn’t ready for a new relationship and wasn’t ready to open up he shouldn’t have started one.
And On another note, don’t make shit personal it is a comment on a free manga site and you don’t know anything about me so fuck you very much (▰˘◡˘▰). I don’t mind if people disagree with my point of view, everyone is different but don’t make personal jabs at strangers. And you on your soap box talking about abusive people tsk tsk ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Waw let’s break up cliffhanger
（￣へ￣）so stupid. Everyone is saying it’s the ex’s fault but I blame uke-kun for this nonsense. My god you are the adult of the two, acting so cowardly is just unacceptable. Have a conversation, have some faith in the person you have been with, yeah it’s a risk, things may not work out that’s just life and has nothing to do with being gay, although it does present is challenges. Giving up without trying is pathetic, and seme shouldn’t need to beg you to give your love a fair chance.