
But what about when neither party wants it and they are fated pairs? The omega suddenly goes into heat near the alpha and discovers they are fated pairs.
The alpha doesn't want the omega nor does the omega want the alpha to do him yet the heat is overpowering them both.
Who is the rapist? The alpha because he is doing the penetrating? That just isn't fair when he didn't want it either.

Yeah, what I'm saying is more often than not it is rape, and very few times is it unintentional on both parts, but it happens. I was just mentioning it can happen both ways. But yeah, people see things differently and think differently (or don't think deeply at all and take everything at face value) but I get what you mean. It can get crazy scary when people can see it for what it is or what it isn't.

Yes it's very sad. People are becoming more accepting of rape. There was this manga that had rape in it (it wasn't omegaverse), and this one person commented on it calling out the rape. Guess what? Their comment got 41 dislikes. 41!!! I was arguing with people in the comments and most of their arguments was "don't read it" or "rape is common in yaoi". So sad to see people justifying rape these days.

Each time I've seen someone pointing out a rape scenario, I found these people detestable (although I agree with them). There are ways to say things instead of judging and lecturing people with full force. The dislikes were not necesseraly a way of showing their disagreement about what has been said.
Omegaverse is getting scary. At first I thought it was pretty hot, but now, all these people coming out of nowhere and is starting to use it to justify rape. I mean I find the estrus scenes hot, but you can't just deny the fact that it's rape. But here some people are like "omg nooo, it was the pheromones!" "they couldn't control themselves!" "they didn't have free will!" "there was no helping it!"
Do you guys understand how ridiculous you sound? Replace this with a drunk person, and let's see how it stands. When you're drunk, you obviously don't have control of yourself right? You can't control your will and you sometimes don't even remember what happened the past day. But, guess what? In the justice system, even if you're drunk, if you fuck somebody without their consent, it's RAPE. You will still get tried in court. There is no justification for rape, even in an omegaverse. Stop trying to sugar-coat it with all this pheromone nonsense.