What brings you here?

parsley June 25, 2018 6:47 pm

Reading the comments, obviously this manga brings out all these different kind of emotions from different people.. Love, hate, anger, anxiety, sadness, excitement and curiosity.. This brings different opinionated people together and whatever they say or feel they cant help but come back here and continue reading.. If you keep coming back and eading it, to me this means this is a good read.. I might be incorrect and i am not trying to offend anyone.. I respect all different kind of opinions.. I just like to know why is that the people who say they hate this manga keep coming and reading this? What brings you here? In my case I like plot. A lot. I don't have to agree to like somethings. if you be kind share your thought I'd appreciate it. Peace!

Responses
    Saya25 June 25, 2018 7:23 pm

    I undersand your point, and I do agree with you.
    The things that baffles me, is that people aren't reaching a consensus in the whole concieving part. Is not that difficult, but well, everyone have their own opinion.

    I don't agree with rape in any yaoi manga or manhwa, but this author have used this theme on her first manhwa, and people did not make this much of a mess in the comments, smth that is surprising. For me, I couldn't like the main couple of "If you hate me", because of how they started their relationship, aside of the misunderstandings and rape of the uke, later falling in love, but that's me. (⊙…⊙ )

    In this one, the uke is selfish, stuborn, and have some qualities (still searching), adding to his troubling past, that we have some clues about it. Moreover, according to my home-country rules, he IS an adult (once you're 18, that is), I don't know well, if it's the same around Korea. And let's not forget, the uke mindset before all this started, his personality, his plans and ambitions. (╯°Д °)╯╧╧

    The hormones in the omegaverse have a huge impact, le'ts not deny it. And liking or not, both are at fault, Dojin did rape Hyesung, and Hyesung did rape Dojin as well. Not accepting this fact, is like saying that guys can't be raped by women or other men, just because they are men, at least from my POV. Even if Dojin is an alpha, does not mean that he can not be vulnerable. Σ(っ°Д °;)っ

    I understand that is scary to think you are smth your whole life, and suddenly that belief is destroyed. I am not saying is an excuse to be a jerk, but it happens. Dojin is trying, he did since the begining to restrain himself, but it did not work.

    NOw, Hyesung is pregnant, and Dojin wants to have the child, an there is nothing we can do about it. I will just wait and read how they will deal with their situation. Peace!! (=・ω・=)

    Yumiswife June 25, 2018 7:55 pm

    In my case i read if you hate me that much and hoped for an expansion on the couple there, in my opinion they are so many better comics and mangas out there and i was extremely disapointed. I can handle rape in manga, but i feel as if there was no need for hyesungs and dojins ENTIRE relationship and sex life to be about rape. In my eyes its a lazy excuse for a plot.
    I read another webcomic about mpreg/omegaverse recently and it was so much better done, you dont have to put rape in almost every chapter. (Its not translated and i cant remember the name) (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

    Judy June 25, 2018 8:07 pm

    I really love how you poined out that this manhwa makes different people have different opinions.

    That's so true, and if the readers respect each other this manhwa could be so interesing despite its flaws. At least it is enjoyable that's why people still come back to read it. I am not the biggest fan of the sex scenes here in this one, but I'm very hooked with the characters development, especially in the future of ourMC

    Judy June 25, 2018 8:11 pm

    Oh and what I mean this manhwa could become interesting is that sharing thoughts, opinions and analysis can give you a good experience with a story

    Ochako June 25, 2018 8:26 pm
    In my case i read if you hate me that much and hoped for an expansion on the couple there, in my opinion they are so many better comics and mangas out there and i was extremely disapointed. I can handle rape in... Yumiswife

    Me too! I really hoped the author will develop their story in if you hate me so itself. But they started this one. Frankly I believe Hyesung's character development there was better than it is here so far! Besides if Hyesung wasn't pregnant nobody would care who raped who!

    parsley June 25, 2018 10:25 pm
    I undersand your point, and I do agree with you.The things that baffles me, is that people aren't reaching a consensus in the whole concieving part. Is not that difficult, but well, everyone have their own opin... Saya25

    Thank you for sharing your opinion. I too dislike the "if you hate me" manhwa. The way that things started and how uke was so easily accepted the seme raping him and seemed ok with it and all become all lovey dovey. I kinda find it boring..However, with this one, I think more to it.. I am more curious about how the story will develop. The uke's back story, his upbringing, his struggles and curious why he chose to hide his intelligence. He could have different life if he continue studying and have a good life.. of course then this wouldnt be that interesting, would it? But what he did was hiding his intelligence, quit his school and tried to get a rich omega.. I guess I am hoping something big to happen here.. On the other hand, Dojin, the seme, he didn't want to be like any other ordinary alpha and all his life tried to be different and go against what you call is natural in this omegaverse.. using your alpha power to get what you want.. when he used his pheromones he was so vulnerable and afraid that he would lose Hyesung... He did not meant todo that..I think author did exceptional job here to express both Seme's and Uke's feelings.. also enjoying how Dojin changed from ignoring and not wanting to be with omega all his life and end up falling love with an omega who everyone think is stupid and not as attractive other omegas. Also what Hyesung going thru here also expressed. First. he was confused when he become prego, he wanted to get rid of it, next, acepted the fact that it wasnt only Dojin's fault, and considered Dojins feeling regarding his being the baby's father and wanting to have the baby, and then with his friends warning trying to secure his future, but still he is not realizing what kind of responsibility and consequences this would bring..Although he is slowly relazing it.. Anyway I am just interested how they both will end up in situation they both didnt expect. I hope this will not end up like "if you hate me" manga.. This could be exciting.. Thanks again. Peace to you!

    parsley June 25, 2018 10:34 pm
    In my case i read if you hate me that much and hoped for an expansion on the couple there, in my opinion they are so many better comics and mangas out there and i was extremely disapointed. I can handle rape in... Yumiswife

    I can see your point of view..Thanks for sharing your thoughts.. Peace!!

    parsley June 25, 2018 10:41 pm
    I really love how you poined out that this manhwa makes different people have different opinions. That's so true, and if the readers respect each other this manhwa could be so interesing despite its flaws. At... Judy

    Absoluteley, it is always fun to read different thoughts here.. Differences are beautiful, that what makes thinga more fun and exciting. And I am also hooked up how the charactets develop and how very well author expresses their feelings. I am looking forward to it.. Peace!

    Saya25 June 25, 2018 10:43 pm
    Thank you for sharing your opinion. I too dislike the "if you hate me" manhwa. The way that things started and how uke was so easily accepted the seme raping him and seemed ok with it and all become all lovey d... parsley

    Again, thanks for the answer.

    You further touched upon the parts that I was curious about, and well explained the points and areas to be developed in this manhwa (if they will). Aside of all the hormones and dramas of the omegaverse, they have a different approach to what they are, one being an alpha, but aspiring to be different from the rest, and the other thinking that was an alpha, and ending up as the last thing he ever wanted. And Hyesung's dislike, might be even connected to what happened to his mother. There are more stuff in this manhwa.

    Why they hide certain things, like family background, skills - is smth that I hope we'll find out as well. And I'm glad that you acknowledge Dojin's vulnerability, despite being an alpha.

    I'm glad that we share this curiosity regarding how they will ascertain their feelings ,and deal with parenthood + their relationship as individuals. And I am really hoping, Fargo doesn't do the same as "If you hate me" manhwa.
    A 1000 thanks!! Peace to you too!!ヾ(☆▽☆)

    Parsley June 26, 2018 1:57 am
    Again, thanks for the answer.You further touched upon the parts that I was curious about, and well explained the points and areas to be developed in this manhwa (if they will). Aside of all the hormones and dra... Saya25

    I welcome different thoughts and makes me see others point of view but i sure do like to know someone out there shares the same thoughts as I am..
    A millions thanks! Sending more peace to your way! (^_^)

    Yumiswife June 26, 2018 7:45 am
    I can see your point of view..Thanks for sharing your thoughts.. Peace!! parsley

    Peace to you too! Have a good day