I want to top

Thanks to yaoi and tumblr that teenage girls aka fujoshis started to think they are bois and ruined everything for the actual real transmen who have gender dysphoria etc.*

i'm not in a defense mood, i'm just rebutting that it's NOT obscure haha?

if you're point is that teenagers are basically dumb, which i still disagree with, what made you even think that OP IS a teenager?? she didn't state she is one, you only concluded that. all i said was that i doubt most girls on this site, who are pretty young, are into that seriously. and i stand by that, and if you say teenagers don't know either, you basically agree. (+ that wasn't even directed at you, just a general statement)

i didn't ask you to prove it, you were the one who felt the need to point it out in the first place. i don't really see a reason for an OP to answer themselves honestly in the first place..

i didn't say it HAS to be a bisexual guy either, but let's be real here, the chances for success are way higher. + i also think of our poor straight fellas out there, because i honestly would feel pretty shitty if i went on a date or had a crush and that person turned out to want to do some strange sexual things with me that i'm not into. which the majority won't be. so..out of conscience for both i gave that advise to search for guys who won't really find the idea of getting fucked as weird as most straight ones haha

True, and very unfortunate.

Didn't say the OP was a teenager. Mine was a generalized statement. Also, never said teenagers were dumb. Just said its difficult to be logical when you're at an age when your just discovering your sexual side.

Agree with you there. The chances are indeed high with bisexuals.

Actually there is. People get diagnosed with gender dysphoria, they then can choose to take up gender reassignment surgery, or identify as the opposite sex or as a trans man/woman. People who are "trans" aren't born trans, they feel they are born either a man or woman but their physical sex doesn't match to this.

bdsm. find a guy willing to sub

strappon

If you and your partner are willing to give and take then it should be good. I mean you want to try being on top suggest your partner that. And in exchange ask what the guy wants. That should do the trick. I mean the guy probably has something in mind that the guy is afraid to ask.

+1000
You are one of the few who understood the OP.

Um, no. If your gender doesn't match up with your sex, then you are transgender. If you feel gender dysphoria (a lot of people don't know that you don't have to have dysphoria to be trans) and want to pursue some kind of physical change to help get rid of that dysphoria, you are transsexual. Let me rephrase what I wrote, since it's true that you can experience gender dysphoria as you grow older, due to puberty and the like. You don't CHOOSE to be trans, unless you're a tumblrina with hundreds of genders to choose from. You may or may not be born transgender (though I believe true transgender people are), but that doesn't mean you can decide one day that you're actually a guy just because you prefer pants over dresses (it's amazing how hypocritical these SJWs are, saying that gender has nothing to do with clothing but then seeing a boy wearing a dress and instantly deciding he's a girl). It's not a decision, but a fact of life. I would know.