I want to top

Soad June 23, 2018 2:00 pm

I'm a girl but I want to top in my relationship. I'm also a hetero. Guys get so scared when they hear this lmao. What should I do?

Responses
    Kalifa sakura June 23, 2018 2:22 pm

    What do you mean by you want to top

    Lambo June 23, 2018 2:27 pm
    What do you mean by you want to top Kalifa sakura

    I think she wants to dick the guy with a dildo or something.

    Soad June 23, 2018 2:31 pm
    I think she wants to dick the guy with a dildo or something. Lambo

    Yeah you're right

    Anonymous June 23, 2018 2:36 pm

    Hmm

    Lambo June 23, 2018 2:38 pm
    Yeah you're right Soad

    You know how I know, coz I had that phase when I was at the peak of my yahoo addiction. I don't know if it's a phase or its permanent for you but I think if you find a partner, you should tell them. You heard of "pegging"? Straight dudes fucked by gf's strap on. It's not really an obscure thing these days, don't worry.

    Lambo June 23, 2018 2:41 pm
    You know how I know, coz I had that phase when I was at the peak of my yahoo addiction. I don't know if it's a phase or its permanent for you but I think if you find a partner, you should tell them. You heard o... Lambo

    *yaoi addiction

    lia June 23, 2018 2:58 pm
    You know how I know, coz I had that phase when I was at the peak of my yahoo addiction. I don't know if it's a phase or its permanent for you but I think if you find a partner, you should tell them. You heard o... Lambo

    lol it's still obscure, just because it happens in porn doesn't make it normal in RL, just like basically all weird fetishes etc. (pegging is a category of femdom for a reason)

    i also don't really get 'supposedly yaoi-fans' who will truly want to do that in real life to their lover, for some random sex with someone like the typical 'uke guy' to try it out maybe, but that's sex not a relationship and given that most fujoshi can't even watch gay porn.. i doubt they would be actually into that seriously

    but well, maybe try finding a bisexual guy that bottoms

    Darkenthat June 23, 2018 3:01 pm

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    Darkenthat June 23, 2018 3:02 pm

    How about becoming trans?? Idek

    IsitYou June 23, 2018 3:07 pm

    Well i'm sure no matter who you tell, anyone/everyone would be surprised. Maybe you could try dating bisexual guys who bottom IDK

    Lambo June 23, 2018 3:09 pm
    lol it's still obscure, just because it happens in porn doesn't make it normal in RL, just like basically all weird fetishes etc. (pegging is a category of femdom for a reason) i also don't really get 'supposed... lia

    What I meant by it's not obscure is that it's not as novel or weird now. Years ago, such an idea would have been unthought of. It's still not a common thing of course, you don't see wives fucking their husbands in every household but it's not really a new thing either.

    Agree with you there but hey, yaoi is written porn and people who're reading it are teenagers mostly so it's not their fault. It's just a phase they might grow out of once they get the maturity to know what a relationship is about. Don't take all the comments posted here seriously, half of them write and move on.

    I'm not the OP. And it doesn't have to be a bisexual. A straight guy will do. Yeah, in comes the argument that a guy who enjoys a strap on must obviously like dicks. But that's not the only thing to consider. The guy might only get turned on by seeing women. He'd obviously feel good with a real dick but that won't change the fact that he wants it.

    Lambo June 23, 2018 3:10 pm
    What I meant by it's not obscure is that it's not as novel or weird now. Years ago, such an idea would have been unthought of. It's still not a common thing of course, you don't see wives fucking their husbands... Lambo

    *doesn't want it

    Lambo June 23, 2018 3:10 pm
    How about becoming trans?? Idek Darkenthat

    Not necessary.
    See pegging

    Lambo June 23, 2018 3:12 pm
    Well i'm sure no matter who you tell, anyone/everyone would be surprised. Maybe you could try dating bisexual guys who bottom IDK IsitYou

    I don't think it's that surprising an issue considering that half the replies to the "Do you wanna be a seme or a uke" questions are "seme". Some just don't stop there and bring it to the realm of reality.

    lia June 23, 2018 3:29 pm
    What I meant by it's not obscure is that it's not as novel or weird now. Years ago, such an idea would have been unthought of. It's still not a common thing of course, you don't see wives fucking their husbands... Lambo

    it wasn't a new thing years ago either, that's my point, it's old but still obscure, as weird as mostly all fetishes are lol

    i'm pretty sure even american pie already had that one scene where she put a finger in his ass when he had an orgasm (pretty sure it's one of those movies, at least a popular american teen movie), and this finger-thing is still a thing tons of guys make fun of .. and the stretch from a finger to something bigger really isn't that big..i even remember that over a decade ago, when you went to gay porn you found tons of pegging. + prostate massages are also really common in hentai, especially straight one..

    'it's not their fault' honestly, if you cannot divide between what you find hot fictional and what you actual want in your life, you shouldn't watch/read ANY porn lol
    imagine people reading shota would draw the same conclusions, that most people aren't serious is exactly my point lol, you're the one thinking girls seeing themselves as a 'seme' if they were gay are worth the actual conclusion they would want to fuck guys

    well, your account was strangely made on the same day, but idc if you're OP or not, saying she shouldn't worry because it's not strange is just definitely BS. she may doesn't need to worry because there are tons of strange sexual fetishes out there and ppl find partners, but it's still damn obscure.

    sure some 'straight guys' may are into it, but the chances are low af to just randomly find someone who shares the same sexual fetish you do (there are online sites for this for a reason), ppl are into all sorts of stuff, but the majority isn't into your kind of thing, that's just how it is...i also don't see why it would need to be a straight guy? if she's into guys getting fucked being picky about their sexuality is a little strange haha, unless that is the true fetish here. (and you know, RL isn't porn)
    and a guy who enjoys a strap-on is definitely not straight. he may not want to do it with real guys for whatever reasons and preferences, but he's also not into normal women. but idc to analyze people's sexual fetishes, sexualities and fantasies, as long as they do their stuff private who cares, it's absolutely not relevant if it's legal and doesn't need a label at all.

    Anonymous June 23, 2018 3:32 pm
    How about becoming trans?? Idek Darkenthat

    Oh yes, because trans people became trans so they can realize their fucked up 2d gay porn fantasies fetish, oh yes totally. What an insult to actual transgenderss, comparing this girl who fetishize gays to people suffering from gender dysphoria, yikes.

    Lambo June 23, 2018 3:43 pm
    it wasn't a new thing years ago either, that's my point, it's old but still obscure, as weird as mostly all fetishes are loli'm pretty sure even american pie already had that one scene where she put a finger in... lia

    Um ok. I don't think we'll ever see eye to eye because you're in defense mode and will only negate everything I say.
    My point is, teenagers don't know to reality and fiction. And they won't stop watching porn because of that. The world isn't a logical place.

    Just noticed the OP made her account today. I don't need to prove that I'm not her.
    I didn't say it needs to be a straight guy. I said it doesn't have to be just a bisexual guy.

    Anonymous June 23, 2018 3:44 pm
    How about becoming trans?? Idek Darkenthat

    There's no such thing as becoming trans, sweetie.

    Or so I thought, until all these teenage girls started thinking they were actually boys, thanks to the Internet and Tumblr.

    sorein June 23, 2018 3:48 pm

    Don’t go for straight dudes and maybe go on fetish forums ¯_(ツ)_/¯

    Anonymous June 23, 2018 3:53 pm
    it wasn't a new thing years ago either, that's my point, it's old but still obscure, as weird as mostly all fetishes are loli'm pretty sure even american pie already had that one scene where she put a finger in... lia

    Agreed with you on everything except the last part. That's like saying that a lesbian who enjoys strapons is definitely not a lesbian. Your sexual fetishes don't define your sexuality.